Fear of being unlovable/Need to know "You are wanted"
Fear of being without support or guidance/Need to know "You are safe"
Fear of being useless, incompetent/Need to know "Your needs a not a problem"
Fear of being bad, corrupt, defective/Need to know "You are good"
Fear of being deprived, trapped in pain/Need to know "You'll be taken care of"
Fear of being harmed, controlled/Need to know "You'll not be betrayed"
Fear of losing identity, insignificance/Need to know "You are seen/known"
Fear of losing connection, fragmentation, Need to know "You matter"
Fear of being without value/Need to know "You are lovable for yourself"