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Do you know anyone else in the RedMeansNo network who can vouch for you? If yes, then who?
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Your gender?
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You are:
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You're interested in attending as a
(If equally interested in both, select the middle option)
Receiver
Aggressor
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Have you had experience attending sex parties or orgies before?
Not at all
Yes, extensive
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What is the most overlooked social group in your culture that people don't have enough compassion for?
There are many groups that deserve compassion that have a lot of people calling attention to them. The question is, what group *doesn't* have people calling attention to them?
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What has been your experience in practicing consensual nonconsent?
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In general, what are your principles for handling consent violations, both done to you and by you?
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We're pretty anonymous, but if you happen to overlap in any of our circles this is useful to know. Feel free to list any communities you're part of - social groups, jobs, scenes, hobbies, etc.
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Which of your exes do you have the worst relationship with (you don't need to use their real name)? What happened and why?
If you don't have any exes, feel free to answer for a past friend. If you don't have any bad relationships with anyone, then say that!
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Have you had any complaints made against you for consent violations? If so what are they and what happened?
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If you are applying jointly with someone else, please list their email(s) here so we can register you as connected
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This is a free text box for any important information about yourself we missed. Why would you be a good fit for these parties?