Act from the question, “Is this a dance we both/all choose?”
Listen to your partner’s cues to gauge if they consent to the dance throughout its course. Change course if it appears that they do not.
Sense for spoken cues (using voice), social cues (like facial expression), and body language (like tensing/relaxing muscles or increasing/decreasing physical distance)
Ask your partner explicitly if it’s unclear whether they consent, especially if they seem hurt, uncomfortable, tired, or if their ability to move away is compromised. Touching a wheelchair or other mobility aid requires consent.
If someone says “stop” or “no,” immediately pause.
Graciously welcome a “no"—make it easy for your partner to exit the dance.