What’s Your Intimacy Style? Mini-Quiz by The Good Love Project

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Discover your unique way of connecting in love and relationships. Answer honestly and intuitively. Your results will be emailed to you with insights and reflections.

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1) When someone starts to get close to me emotionally, I usually…

A) Feel excited and dive right in!

B) Stay open, but take my time to build trust

C) Feel a little nervous—what if they leave or change their mind?

D) Pull back—I need space to sort through my feelings

E) Shape myself to what I think they want from me

2) I feel safest in relationships when…

A) We check in often and share our feelings

B) There’s clear communication and steady support

C) I have space to do my own thing without pressure

D) I know I’m needed or appreciated

E) The connection feels magical or “meant to be”

3) When there’s conflict or tension, I usually…

A) Try to fix it right away—I can’t relax until it’s resolved

B) Take a breath, think it through, and then talk it out

C) Need time alone to cool off or process

D) Feel anxious and want reassurance that we’re okay

E) Go along with what the other person wants to keep the peace

4) My ideal relationship feels…

A) Deep, emotional, and full of connection

B) Supportive, respectful, and stable

C) Free, fun, and full of independence

D) Passionate, romantic, and soul-connected

E) Like a safe place to grow and figure out who I really am

5) When it comes to expressing my needs…

A) I tend to over-explain or worry I’m being too much

B) I say what I need calmly and clearly (most of the time)

C) I keep things to myself to avoid drama

D) I often don’t know what I need until it’s too late

E) I try to match what my partner wants instead of focusing on my own needs

6) I sometimes worry that…

A) I care more than the other person does

B) I’ll lose my sense of self in a relationship

C) Love won’t last, no matter how hard I try

D) I’ll never find the deep connection I crave

E) I’m too “complicated” or “needy” to be loved

7) I feel most loved when someone…

A) Shows me with actions and consistency

B) Gives me freedom and trusts me

C) Holds space for my emotions s

D) Sees the real me—even the messy parts

E) Surprises me with romantic gestures or big feeling

8) Right now, my biggest relationship goal is… *

A) Feeling more secure and connected

B) Building something healthy and long-term

C) Staying true to myself while in connection

D) Healing old wounds and breaking patterns

E) Finding a love that feels magical and real

Please list the letter of your choice for each question (e.g. 1A, 2C, 3D…). This helps me calculate your unique intimacy style and send you a personalized result.

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