If you were about to take your last breaths of life would you be able to say, “ I had a great and happy life? I have no regrets? I accomplished my dreams”? Unfortunately, only 1 out of 10 can say this on their deathbed. The other nine died with regrets according to thousands of hospice interviews.
There’s one sinister thing that causes 90% of people to die unhappy and unreached dreams. This One Thing destroys more dreams than anything else in this world. One Thing is the biggest destroyer of lives, relationships, businesses, success, and people’s health. This ONE THING causes all the wars, poverty, and destruction in the world. The great news is, we weren’t born with One Thing.
That One Thing happens to have a name and its name is FEAR. Today, you can choose to overcome it. The world has made FEAR palpable disguising its sinister real name with the word STRESS. Every day, all day, around the world people say, "I'm stressed out." Wake up world! Stress is FEAR!
421 school shootings have occurred at US schools since the 1999 Columbine School massacre. Fear(stress) is the sole, sinister reason for school shootings. Fear leads to hate, rage, and depression. Fear incites student school shootings, suicides, bullying, and drug usage. Suicide is the #1 cause of death among students. The majority of students attend school every day under stress(fear). It's fear's fault. Sadly, no US school is addressing fear.
Fill up a room with non-poisonous spiders and snakes. Place a newborn baby on the floor. The baby won’t be afraid. Hold a newborn over the edge of a mountain cliff, and it won’t be scared. Why? Infants aren't born with fear. Fear is learned through people, TV, movies, the internet, at schools.
Can a two-year-old throw temper tantrums in a busy store filled with tons of shoppers? Yes. Because the child has yet learned to fear C.H.E.R. - Criticisms, Humiliation, Embarrassment, Rejection. Public speaking happens to be the #1 fear in the world. Public speaking is feared more than death.
"Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering." ~ Yoda, Jedi Master
Fear is the #1 reason for lost profits, poor innovation, and toxic work cultures in today's businesses. Disney Animation President, the creator of Toy Story, wrote, "Fear is the biggest blocker to innovation & creativity."
Google's multi-year study revealed fear is the biggest hindrance to successful teams. 75% of the companies' healthcare costs are due to stress[fear]. A recent Gallup survey reveals that 97% of employees are fearful, thus the reason for so many at-work shooting massacres. Fear causes more companies to flatline - go bankrupt - than anything else.
Martin Luther King wrote, “Fear is the biggest problem a society faces.”
Fear drives every evil action. Pain, suffering, stress, wars, racism, bullying, divorces, depression, selfishness, jealousy, racism, greed, anger, hate, unforgiveness, anxiety, school shootings, opioid drug crisis, and crimes are fear-driven. Fear doesn’t discriminate. Fear kills, murders, and destroys regardless of race, age, gender, religion, economic class, sexual orientation, or nationality.
Fear-based sickness costs the US economy a trillion dollars a year. 750,000 people die a year in America from heart attacks induced by fear-driven stress.
“The BOLD reach their dreams, the fearful end up sad, poor or in prison” ~ the Architect of Valantis
Have you heard people say, “That’s outside my comfort zone?” The world would be different if we walked around with signs that say, “I live in a prison of fear.” A comfort zone is a prison made out of four walls of fear that block, hinder, restrict, restrain, impede, hamper, and reduce us from achieving our dreams, and achieving the impossible.
You can't reach your dreams and live inside your comfort zone - it's impossible. You weren’t born to live a life inside a prison of fear. You were born to achieve GREATNESS and reach your dreams.
“Fearphy’s Law - What you fear will happen to you” ~ the pink prophet, the architect of Valantis
There’s an ancient formula that you don't have to be a mathematician to use. The recipe to reach GREATNESS and achieve the impossible is called "The AOF formula".
AOF stands for the Absence of Fear. Those bold few who courageously achieved an AoF life throughout history achieved GREATNESS. They achieved the impossible.
Anyone that applies AoF to intimacy, relationships, leadership, work, businesses, entrepreneurship, teams, innovation, and school will achieve GREATNESS in those areas. The biggest blocker to amazing bedroom intimacy is fear.
An AoF life is a life of happiness, peace, and love creating a magnet for opportunities, friendships, and creativity that releases your GREATNESS to achieve your dreams. Those who valiantly strive for an AoF life will die happy, and regret-less. And they'll attain their dreams. They will have achieved the impossible.
Fear is a choice. At the end of the road if you didn’t accomplish your dreams don’t blame anyone but yourself. Don't blame your parents, your teachers, your friends. Today, you can choose not to fear. Today, you can choose to face your fears. Today, you can choose to break out of your prison of fear and live an AOF life.
Is overcoming your fears difficult? It's the hardest thing you’ll ever do in your life. But, it’s worth it. Decide today to courageously face your fears and live an AOF life. Those who boldly face their fears will experience peace and happiness. Those who live an AOF LIFE will achieve their DREAMS and the impossible.
Is an AoF life possible? 100% unequivocally, Yes! How you get to an AoF life is chosen by you. For me, the architect of Valantis nation, it’s my belief that allows me to live an AoF life, a life outside my comfort zone, a life of GREATNESS, a life of achieving dreams and overcoming the impossible. Just imagine an entire nation with its citizens living AOF lives?
