BDSM Submissive Questionnaire
DRAFT The BDSM Questionnaire for new Submissives for Master Xoobs and Mistress Anguish. Please remember that the form is draft and questions may be randomised. Not all apply to you. If you think there are no questions to ask then please email us to add the questions. WHERE POSSIBLE USE NUMBERS 00=Over my dead body, 0=No, 1=Unlikely, 2=would need patience and persuasion, 3=reluctantly, 4=not keen, 5=willing to try, 6=occasionally, 7=yes please, 8= everytime, 9=hourly, desperate for it, when can we start.
Email address *
Name *
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Postcode *
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Mobile Telephone / Kik Username *
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e-mail *
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Date completed *
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Are you prepared to use the fucking machine
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Are you on the pill/coil (equivalent)
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Are you on the pill/coil (equivalent)
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Are you prepared to be Spanked
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Are you prepared to be exhibited in private
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Are you prepared to be exhibited naked in public (in limited environments where it is not illegal or likely to result in police action - for example, nudity in quiet forest areas, being made to have sex in dogging car parks areas - these are areas where you're watched and the police know about but leave alone etc)
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Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine) - being forced to pee in front of Master/Mistress
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Urogenia (Making Sub burst for pee and pee not in toilet - for example in a litter box like a cat)
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Sub Urine play (pee in Subs mouth) (Medical Note: Pee is effectively sterile and therefore carries no health risk)
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Sub Urine play (pee in Subs mouth+ Swallow) (Medical Note: Pee is effectively sterile and therefore carries no health risk)
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Master Urine play (pee in Master’s/Mistress' mouth)
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Voyeurism
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Tickling
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Breath control (breathplay, asphyxiation) - this is done via a closed system such as a gas mask with restricted breathing tube - for safety reasons, only very limited breathplay will be used - strangulation etc is not safe. (Blocking of breathing tube will be no more than 10 seconds). Play may also involve ducking into water if temperature permits.
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Collar and Lead/Leash wearing in private
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Collar and Lead/Leash wearing in public - i.e. being taken for a walk on a leash
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Hypnotic relaxation of the submissive (This is usually only done in limited circumstances - Master Xoobs is a retired stage hypnotist - hypnosis may be used, for example to relax a subject to allow multiple orgasms. Full hypnosis will not be carried out as unnecessary.
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Forced bi-sexuality of the submissive (being required to perform sex acts on another female submissive/Mistress or receive sex acts from another female submissive/Mistress)
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Are you prepared to be molested by other Masters/Mistresses (and their subs) upon the instruction of your Master/Mistress? (This does not involve penis penetration)
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Are you prepared to be fucked by other Masters/Mistresses (and their subs) upon the instruction of your Master/Mistress?
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Penetrative Sex (by Master)
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Penetrative Sex (Mistress via toys)
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Penetrative Sex (Digital (i.e. fingers))
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Hair Pulling
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High Heel Play (forced standing etc)
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Spanked with Canes (may leave marks for a few days)
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Spanked with Hands (redness for a few hours max - may lead to orgasm by spanking alone)
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Abrasive Play - rough silk, leather, sandpaper, brushes, etc in clothes to create discomfort.
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Active Coffee – Visits to outside places when wearing devices controlled by master (such as remote vibrating live beads)
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Active full Nudity – Visits to outside places (where legal) when wearing no skirt and knickers
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Active No-Knickers – Visits to outside places when wearing no knickers
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Anal Beads – A set of strung beads used to insert into the anus to stimulate the anal nerves as foreplay or to cause orgasm.
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Anal Play – This is generally play where the anus may be penetrated with either beads, ice, dildos, anal plugs, penis. (Not anal fisting)
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Anal Plug (Small) – (See also: Dildo, Vibrator ) A specially designed dildo for use in the anus that is shaped in a way so that it will not “fall out”. May be vibrating. Most commonly inserted and left in the anus for a given amount of time. May also be by Dildo
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Arm / Leg Sleeves (often called arm binders) – Play which involves binding the arms/legs of the submissive in an attempt to restrict mobility
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Bi-Play (Receiving) – serving both Master and another female (may include her strapping on artificial penis)
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Bi-Play (Giving) – serving both Master and forcing another female to service Sub taking quiz (may include her strapping on artificial penis)
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Blindfolds – (See also: Full-Head Hoods ) Play which involves temporarily blocking the submissive’s sense of sight. This type of play is essential when everyday objects are used to give unexpected sensations. It can have unpredictable psychological effects and be extremely frightening for some people thus inducing access to Sub-space. Blindfolds come in many forms from the more expensive leather (full-head type) to the more inexpensive handkerchiefs, scarves, bandages. Safety Safety Note: Sub must inform Master if there is pressure on the eyeballs.
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Bondage – (includes : Breast / Chest Bondage , Immobilization , Intricate Japanese Rope Bondage , Manacles / Irons , Mummification , Shibari , Spreader Bar , Straight Jacket ) The restriction of a person’s bodily movements for erotic reasons using fastenings of various types or textures. Examples; Rope, cuffs, chains, and other restraining apparatus.
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Breast Whipping – Whipping of the woman’s / submissive’s chest area using a variety of items which include: floggers, whips, cat tails, paddles, for erotic purposes.
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Cages – Most common is the use of a large animal cage. Construction of a cage can be of wood, steel, fencing material. Used to confine the submissive, for play or punishment
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Caning – Often people think canes are made of bamboo though bamboo is prone to splintering so rattan is preferred. Many feel caning produces the most pain. Care is used since welts from caning are slow to rise and blood can be accidentally drawn if not constantly and carefully monitored. Caning is limited to the fleshy part of the buttocks, upper thighs and nowhere else on the body. (Not for the novice Master).
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Cells or Closets – Play which involves locking the submissive in a cell-type device and / or closet. Usually as a form of punishment. PLEASE advise if you are claustrophobic, even slightly
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Visiting Chores (Domestic Service) – (See also: Housework) Scenes where the sub visits and Dominant requires the submissive to perform chores and / or domestic service in either sexually pleasing clothing (i.e., maid outfits) or naked and can inter-play with her as he/she feels fit.
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Collar (Private)– A collar worn around the neck to indicate one’s submissiveness in scene. These can be made of leather, steel, rubber, rope. Used in scenes for humiliation and / or examples such as dog / puppy or even boy / girl play.Where not publicly worn, Sub must wear garter collar at all other times on thigh or ankle
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Collar (Public)– A collar worn around the neck to indicate one’s submissiveness. These can be made of leather, steel, rubber, rope. Used in scenes for humiliation and / or examples such as dog / puppy or even boy / girl play
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Competition and games – scenes where games such as cards are played with penalties and bonuses for Sub
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Crotch Torture – Any form of torture to the female genital area. See pony pain pictures
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Cuffs – A leather or metal bondage device used to restrict movement. Usually locks around the limbs in order to place the submissive in a precarious position.
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Dildo penetration Vagina
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Dildo penetration Arse
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Double Penetration – Anus and Vagina simultaneously
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Exercise – Play which involves forcing one’s submissive to exert physical exercise as a form of control / humiliation (may include lifting, running, weight-lifting, etc.), sometimes with insertions – such as a running machine or weight lifting with a vibrator inserted in the vagina or anys that you’re not allowed to drop out
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Exhibitionism – Common dictionary term meaning a perversion marked by a tendency to indecent exposure; an act of such exposure; the act of practicing or behaving in such a manner as to attract attention to oneself. Scening involving the display of public / private exhibitionism in order to exert control and / or humiliation
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Eye Contact Restrictions – Restricting one’s submissive from any eye contact with the Dominant (i.e., forcing submissive to look away / look down). Similar to military boot camps. Control is enforced by the Dominant by refusing eye contact.REQUIRED
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Face Slapping – Involves play where a moderate amount of slapping of the face is used for humiliation / control. This play can be dangerous if an eye is struck, etc
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Fantasy Abandonment – Play which involves the fantasy of abandonment. Possibly leaving the submissive in a deserted area or public area for a short period of time to exert control and punishment.
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Fantasy Rape –Scenes where the Dominant fulfills a submissive’s fantasy of rape.
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Fantasy Rape (Gang) Involves the same type of play with the exception of scene being performed by a group.
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Fear – Incorporating fear into scenes by using the submissive’s own fears as an outline for play. We will discuss fears ahead of time
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Fellatio – (See also: Head ) Performing oral sex on a man’s penis without swallowing
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Fisting (Vaginal) – Play which involves placing or attempting to place multiple fingers and then the entire hand in the vagina. Requires an extreme gentleness, care, and patience.
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Flogger – (See also: Strapping , Whipping ) A whip device usually with many “tails”. Used on buttocks or back, generally to make nerve sensations greater. Floggers can be used on the genital areas. Can be used for play or punishment. This form of play is not for the novice, and can be dangerous.
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Food Presentation (private)– This is where the submissive (chosen specifically or by drawn lot) must present naked and lie on table (thus becoming the table) and cold and mildly warm food served on her which the “dinner party” then eat. Often done with chopsticks. Usually includes ice-cream or cream desert as licking sub clean can be fun. Limited to Master/Mistress & his/her subs
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Food Presentation (group)– This is where the submissive (chosen specifically or by drawn lot) must present naked and lie on table (thus becoming the table) and cold and mildly warm food served on her which the “dinner party” then eat. Often done with chopsticks. Usually includes ice-cream or cream desert as licking sub clean can be fun. Limited to Master/Mistress & his/her subs and personal invitees.
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Food Presentation (public)– This is where the submissive (chosen specifically or by drawn lot) must present naked and lie on table (thus becoming the table) and cold and mildly warm food served on her which the “dinner party” then eat. Often done with chopsticks. Usually includes ice-cream or cream desert as licking sub clean can be fun. Performed at Fetish venue where all fetish club visitors can participate. See also Nude Waitressing which may simply involve nude serving of food or nude serving of food (food placed on breasts, depends on boob size)
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Examinations (Medical simulation)– Scenes involving some type of physical examination (i.e. medical exams) where the use of various types of equipment are used.
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Forced Dressing – Forcing the submissive to dress however the Dominant sees fit, whether publicly or privately. Used generally for humiliation.
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Forced Lesbianismy – Scenes where the submissive is forced into having sexual relations with someone of the same sex. (Bi-sexual scenes)
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Forced Masturbation – Scenes where the submissive is forced to perform masturbation in front of/for the Dominant
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Forced Nudity – A scene which involves forcing one’s submissive to remain nude either privately or publicly. Generally as a form of control / humiliation
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Gags – To restrict the use of the mouth by inserting a gag, in various textures (i.e., cloth, leather, ball gag, etc.). When using gags, it is important to remember that these only be worn for short periods of time.
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Hairbrush Spanking – Play which involves the use of a hairbrush to inflict pain on the buttocks. Commonly used in “naughty girl” scenes for punishment.
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Headmaster punishment (Spanking in school uniform)
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Hot Wax – (See also: Hot Oils , Waxing ) The process of using hot wax in scening. The wax most commonly used are candles and can be used on various parts of the body for erotic stimulation. Only specialist Sex wax can be used as some types of wax, beeswax for instance, have a tendency to become extremely hot during burning and should always be used carefully to prevent permanent burning / scarring of the skin. Note: not for the novice
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Ice Play – ice used on nipples or genital areas for desensitization of senses or nerves.
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Immobilization – (See also: Bondage , Intricate Japanese Rope Bondage , Coffin Play, Mummification , Shibari ) Any form of bondage technically immobilizes someone; however, this term is usually used for extreme forms of bondage where the submissive literally cannot move a muscle.
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Kidnapping – Term meaning to seize, detain, or carry away by unlawful force. Some players in the BDSM scene have fantasies regarding kidnapping and may ask for a scene involving some sort of “play kidnapping”. The Sub will be given a date or range of dates when they will be kidnapped with a van.
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Kneeling – To be used as a form of “respect” toward the Dominant. Making the submissive kneel when the Dominant enters the room, during scening, in public, etc. A punishment form of kneeling is where the submissive is kneeling in a different position then for *offering* herself.
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Maid – Nude – must clean house nude, or pantiless available for Dom at any time for sex
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Manacles / Irons – (See also: Bondage ) Metal rings joined by a chain to restrain the wrist or ankles.
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Massage – Using the hands (generally) to massage areas of the body. Possibly giving a massage to “warm up” or “foreplay” before play.
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Medical Scenes – Often desired to be done in a room equipped and fitted as a physicians or surgeons office. This is a form of role play, where cavity exams, piercing, the use of needles, scalpels, equipment sounds are generally found. Not for the novice. Some forms of this play are illegal, and can be dangerous. Skin breakage is not permitted in our scene plays
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Nude Modeling public – Usually used for camera pictures, where one is placed in positions for best appearance. (Public face)
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Modeling (private) – Usually used for video pictures, where one is placed in positions for best appearance. (Masters face is always obscured – Sub in Mask/face obscured). For release on Internet in manner that no identification of parties is possible. Sub will be asked to create a porn-name which will only be known to Master and Sub. (Videos will be checked by both Sub and Master in After-care before release. (Model contract will be provided)
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Nipple Clamps –Clamp-type devices placed on the nipples during play to stimulate and stop blood flow to the nipple
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G-spot finger Massage to Orgasm– Intense excitement resulting in an explosive discharge of neuromuscular tensions at the height of sexual.
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Pain – In broad terms, pain is the body’s warning that something is wrong; however, our pain responses are very complex and it is very easy to produce the effect of pain without doing any real harm to the body.Subs actually enjoy or at least get some satisfaction out of the intense physical sensation. Some of the satisfaction may be attributed to the release of body chemicals also known as “endorphins” and or “andrenaline”.
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Pony – A device used directly on genitals for punishment. The person’s body weight, plus additional weight is placed directly on the pony which distributes pain to a very exact area.(See “horse”) Not for the novice.
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Pony Dildo– A life sized horse dildo used for penetration of sub. Used correctly this is does not cause permanent stretching and no physical damage but stretching causes mega-orgasms (like vaginal fisting) Not for the novice Masters.
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Prison Scening – Acting out a scene involving some type of prison scene. The use of a *cell* is for punishment and humiliation.May be over many hours. May involve rape simulation.
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Punishment – Scenes where the Dominant “punishes” the submissive for “bad or unruly” behavior. Often performed in little boy / girl scenes which may involve spankings, time-outs, etc.
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Punishment Post – used to make Sub stand on toes. If she steps down off toes, the punishment post causes pain to vaginal area. (May involved penetration pole/impaler dildo)
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Pussy Whipping – “Whipping” the genital (vagina) area with different types of equipment (i.e., floggers, crops, slappers, etc.) for erotic pleasure.
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Pussy Worship – The practice of play involving the “worship” of the female genitalia of another Sub of the Master. Scenes may involve the cleaning, licking, shaving, etc. In general, “worship” is a form of erotic play.
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Rack – A table-like device which is fitted with pulling or stretching capabilities. Some racks incorporate pulleys, winches or wheels for pulling one in opposing directions. Paddles or whips are generally used on the person on a rack.
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Saint Andrews Cross – This is a cross made in an X formation. It is generally angled and self-supporting. Some are suspended from ceilings, or mounted directly to a wall. The cross has leather restraints for arms, legs and body, Some have hooks along the edges for a person to be “laced” to the cross. Used for sexual play, or punishment can be administered while attached to the cross.
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Slave – Sub agreed to go to a new area where she is a totally subordinate person who needs total direction in all aspects of their life. To be owned, to serve, without question, and who questions nothing they are told. Slaves can be sold to other Masters.
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Speculum Play – A medical instrument intended for the use of medical examination of the vagina or rectum, made of steel or plastic in the shape of a duckbill. The speculum is lubricated and inserted. After insertion, the “bill” is spread apart to open the cervix in the vagina.
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Speculum E=Play – A medical instrument similar to that which is intended for the use of medical examination of the vagina or rectum, inserted into vagina to give slow rhythmical pulses creating intense long-lasting uncontrollable orgasms.(Experienced Mater use only as limbs can thresh around if not properly restrained and care with restraints needed to avoid bruising).
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Spreader Bar – (See also: Bondage ) A bar type device used to “spread” apart arms / legs of the submissive. Bars can be made of common, inexpensive materials such as dowel rods, pvc pipe, broomsticks, etc.
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Spit Roast – Suspension where Sub is fucked and must give blow job/cunnilingus at same time – Master plus other female sub of master
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Spit Roast – Suspension where Sub is fucked and must give blow job/cunnilingus at same time – Master plus other male (Chosen after discussion)
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Spit Roast – Suspension where Sub is fucked and must give blow job/cunnilingus at same time – Master plus other male chosen by Master
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Stocks – A type of bondage “furniture” based on the medieval form of stocks used for punishment. Stocks usually consist of two hinged pieces of wood with semi-circular holes which when locked together form a ring large enough for the head / neck and wrists to be placed inside.
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Straight Jacket – (See also: Bondage ) A jacket type of garment meant to be worn “backwards”, consisting of close-ended sleeves that are strapped crisscrossed around the back and tied or locked in place (i.e., Houdini used this garment to escape from frequently).
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Additional Comments/Desires 1 *
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Additional Comments/Desires 2
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Additional Comments/Desires 3
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Forced Masturbation Semi-Public – Scenes where the submissive is forced to perform masturbation in front of/for the Dominant or others as a form of erotic / sensual play or humiliation.
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Clothes pegs/pins – usually used for hanging clothes. Generally used in BDSM play as quite effective nipple clampsEdges are dipped in latex to prevent sticking to skin
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Hunt & Capture (adult version on hide and seek where finder of sub can do with her as he sees fit)
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Rape Fantasy ( will be discussed)
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Home Nudity (Where sub must remain naked when at home unless children or vanilla people are visiting)
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Munch Displays (Where sub must attend BDSM Meetings with Master/Mistress and submit to showing her arse/vagina and publicly displaying there)(Non-touching, save by Master/Mistress)
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Munch Displays (Where sub must attend BDSM Meetings with Master/Mistress and submit to showing her arse/vagina and publicly displaying there)(Touching by anyone but no penetration except by Master/Mistress)
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Sex with Master/Mistress at Fetish Clubs (visible by other club goers (not requiring sub to have sex with anyone else)
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Spitting on the submissive
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verbal abuse of submissive
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Toilet Permission and Reporting (Require her to report for permission every time she uses the toilet. )
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Set a minimum and maximum number of bathroom visits per day.
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Inversion (upside down suspension) and Wheel Play
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Electric Play (Tens, Violet Wand devices) - Tens is an electronic orgasm stimulation machine and Violet want provides save minor electric shocks (similar to static shock off carpets)
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VLT (Vaginal Lip torture)
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Nipple Clamping
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Tray play (When the submissive makes herself like a table so her Master and friends can feed off her naked body (no sexual contact permitted, save sucking or licking of breasts or licking of pussy)
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Forced chastity
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Sensory deprivation
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Suspension/suspension play
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Humiliation
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Daddy/daughter play
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Duct tape use on the submissive
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Purposely stretching of any part of the Submissive’s body
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Forced confinement of the submissive
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Total Power Exchange (TPE) - TPE is loosely defined as one person [the Master] completely, utterly and totally making the decisions for himself and his submissive.
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Unusual mind control games
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Rimming (licking, eating, and/or otherwise using the mouth/tongue on Submissive’s anus ring).
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Fisting of the Submissive’s pussy
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Are you prepared to maintain exclusive sex to Master/Mistress? (You can always ask to play away, as long as accepting that "no" means you can't)
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Anal sex
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Pantyhose/Stockings Play (involves tearing - may also involve slut stockings in public etc)
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Participating in Erotic Photography (Face will be obscured by mask)
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Will you do Erotic Dance on request
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