This is a somewhat anarchistic, feminist art group. Our general ethos is “don’t be an asshole.”

We’re a group of headstrong, creative, opinionated, and passionate people collaborating to make art. Friction happens, and that’s okay. When it does, you’re encouraged to talk to the person involved or to someone you trust for support.

Sometimes they’re the asshole, sometimes you’re the asshole, and sometimes it’s a mix of both. Talk, listen, seek understanding, embrace apologies, and make space to grow. This is how we support each other as artists and as people. It’s messy and full of subjective gray areas, but it’s also glorious and expansive.

That said:

Be safe for yourself and others. Don’t put others in danger. You are ultimately responsible for your own safety.

If you don’t know how to use a tool, ask! Folks may be unavailable in that moment, but don’t hesitate to request time for learning.

Unwanted attention, from comments on appearance, gender, sexual orientation, age, race, to sexual assault, is not tolerated. Consequences range from warnings to expulsion.

Don’t take tools out of anyone’s hands.

Avoid giving unsolicited advice. If you think you know a better way to do something, ask if they want help (once). Don’t assume your way is best—people have their own methods and expertise.

Be curious, assume no malice, ask questions, and apologize sincerely.

While all genders are welcome, please be cognizant that this is a femme and LGBTQI+ centered space. My cis hetero dudes, you are probably a nice human, but be aware of yourselves in this context, and graciously step back to make room for others. 

If someone makes you feel unsafe or unwelcome, please report it in person or by emailing crew-support@flaminglotus.com.