Your spouse says, “I’ll do the dishes.” You hear, “I’m doing you a favor.” Your partner says, “I’ll babysit.’’ You think, “It’s not babysitting when it’s your kid.’’ Sound familiar? Words may matter as much as actions as couples navigate the emotional trip wires of working, schooling and raising kids at home during the pandemic. Have there been crossed signals and misunderstandings between you and your partner? *