The Sauce - Incident Report

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At the Sauce, we aim for the sweet spot between thoughtful risk-taking and respect, safety, and accountability. When it comes to erotic exploration - and the inherent risks involved in it - safer experiences thrive in a clear, consent-forward culture.

If you feel your consent has been violated or ignored, or if you’ve violated someone’s consent and want to take accountability, please let me know by filling out this form. Your voice matters in keeping our community safe and supportive.

Once you fill out this form, I (Bez Stone) will reach out to you to follow up in the appropriate way. If you want to report an incident in which you felt violated by me (Bez), please reach out to our community member and independent mediator Gabriel Cooper at gcooper816@gmail.com to report.

Feedback and Suggestions

If you have suggestions about improving the incident reporting process or feedback on any issues, please email me at santacruzsauce@gmail.com. I'm always open to hearing from you and making The Sauce even better.

You can find the Sauce's consent guide here: https://bit.ly/thesauceconsent

With deep gratitude, parts of my framework were inspired by the work of William Winters (william@bonobonetwork.com) & Misha Bonaventura (misha@bonobonetwork.com) of Bonobo Network. You can find their open source Consent & Accountability Policy here: https://bit.ly/bonobonetworkconsentpolicy

Your email

If you would like to report anonymously, please leave this blank. However, in that case I will not be able to follow up with you.

Your name

Name of the person you're reporting

If you don't know their name, please describe them as best you can. Share a link to their social profile if that's your best way to identify them.

What happened

Please describe the behavior you want to bring to our attention as well as who was involved.

When and where did it happen?

Please provide a date, time, and location as specifically as you can.

Who else witnessed this behavior, if anyone?
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Have you followed up with the person/people involved in this incident or do you intend to? *

Yes

I'm not sure yet

Other:

What sort of response would you like to this report?

Select all that apply

I want help having a mediation or clearing conversation with the person.

I want you to look into this on my behalf and follow up with all the involved parties, including me.

I want to talk with you but don't necessarily need you to talk with the person.

I just want you to know about this incident, no follow up is needed.

Other:

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