Sat 20th Nov 2027 - Caring Kink: Power Play of 'Dom and Sub'  
"Trust comes before obedience - submission must be earned." - Anon

"Those eyes stare at me, and I don't look away. Not a wild animal, but the same rules apply. Looking away is submissive. Looking into the eyes is a challenge. It's my choice." - V Roth (paraphrased)

"To surrender into submission and given the gift of being held...
To be gifted with the trust to play with a beautiful body and mind - to dominate, explore and hold...
Which will you choose? Can you switch and have both!?" - NM

During a day workshop and after party (pants-on) you’ll get the opportunity to play with kinky pleasure in a safe and loving group, guided by Neil.  In 'Power Play' we will use a sensual flavour combined with exploring roles of PRIMAL, DOMINANT, WICKED, SUBMISSIVE, SERVANT,  PLAYTHING.  We will explore ways to do this in a safe, held way that allows us to find healing, intimacy and connection through play.  

A focus on DS elements specifically allows a deepening of polarity play, using:
  • Energetics of dominance and submission
  • Using eyes, words and touch
  • Breath Play
  • Role Play including pet / slave (collaring)
YOU CAN COME SOLO, OR WITH A PARTNER, NO PRIOR EXPERIENCE OR PARTNER NECESSARY.  WE AIM TO MAKE A SAFE, PLAYFUL SPACE FOR YOU TO EXPLORE

Come to this if...
- You'd like to try both Dom and Sub roles, or even if you have a preference for one
- You'd like to be collared or made into a pet, or you'd like to play owner and master/mistress
- You'd like to play with building arousal using a subtle power dynamic and sensual play
- You'd like to understand how to play with power responsibly and with fun
- Want to bring a kinky dynamic into your relationships and discover how pain can enliven it
- You're curious about the exploring your edges and your darker desires 
- You'd like to meet like-minded people and play together
- You'd like a really well held, trauma-informed and risk aware space that allows you to have fun and learn how to attune and check in with your boundaries, desires and needs.
- You want a focus on sensuality and eroticism, but without full nudity and full sexual intercourse (to help us slow down and not need to go all-the-way')

Please bring food, any toys / blankets you might want, comfy clothes and slippers PLUS a change of clothes for the pants-on play party (something you feel sexy/good in)

More about Caring Kink (see here for full info: https://www.positively-mindful.com/playful-desires.html )
The work of Kink includes BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, Masochism) which is a lot of big scary words, I know.  My mission is to remove the stigma and fear from these wonderful, playful and innocent practices and help people discover the benefits of a safe space to explore our shadows,  edges and innocent playful desires.

Within the workshop we will always begin with meeting ourselves and each other, to settle our nervous systems and feel connected and safe. We will then work on knowing our 'no' and getting our clear consent practices in place. This is embodied work and my aim is to help people experience their bodies in the moment, so they know what they need and how to communicate it. I work hard to make a space where participants also feel enabled to communicate their needs. This is one of my strengths as a facilitator.  I understand the importance and the challenge of this.

Caring Kink principles:
  •  C: Check in: at the start and throughout using pauses, squeezes and close attention. Aftercare includes check-ins too, and extends to the day or week after.  Aftercare is for both partners. 
  •  A: Accidents happen: Roll with them. We treat mistakes as opportunities for connection and love, instead of blame and shame. This is a practice of:
  •  R: Reconnection: Connection is always the focus. When we notice we lose presence due to performance anxiety, numbing or something similar we slow down and pause and reconnect, following play, pleasure and love. 
  • E: Encouraging each other: We encourage a clear 'no' by asking for it up front, and celebrating someone / ourselves when it's given (it's courageous to say no). When someone expresses desires we celebrate them, even if it's not our cup of tea - never yucking someone else's yum's 
YOU CAN COME SOLO, OR WITH A PARTNER, NO PRIOR EXPERIENCE OR PARTNER NECESSARY.  WE AIM TO MAKE A SAFE, PLAYFUL SPACE FOR YOU TO EXPLORE

Held by...Neil  
Neil is a coach, counsellor and mindfulness teacher who is passionate about creating more caring kink.   

Schedule of the day / evening
10:45 Arrive
11am Start - in the morning we will wake up our bodies and learn about consent
1ish: Shared Lunch: Bring some food and we will enjoy together
2 ish: In the afternoon we will drop into more kinky play and work together to build pleasure and connection
5-7pm: Shared leftovers dinner: Usually we have plenty left
7ish-9ish: Pants-on party to play with our kinky knowledge 
10pm Venue emptied 

Please bring food, day and evening clothing, toys and self-care.

Prices for a full day workshop and after party:
We have a capacity for 22 people. 

  • Super Early bird price: £69  Before September 20

  • Early Bird price: £79 Before October 20
  •  Standard ticket price £89  
  • Supporter price (help someone with less money  : £99 
    If you buy one of these I will then have a low income ticket available.
  • ​Supported Tickets: £59 
    Some people pay a little extra allowing me to     provide supported tickets for those who are struggling financially. I subsidise the first two tickets myself.  Apply here: Financial Support Application

  • Assistant ticket:  £39  
    (email me first if interested, before filling this in) Arrive early, leave late - Help me set up / pack down. Be a demo bunny and also sit with someone if they are in distress. You get to fully participate). I'll aim to have three volunteers.       
Tickets are non-refundable, but you can re-sell them. 
The new person must fill in a registration form 24hrs before the event

YOU CAN COME SOLO, OR WITH A PARTNER, NO PRIOR EXPERIENCE OR PARTNER NECESSARY.  WE AIM TO MAKE A SAFE, PLAYFUL SPACE FOR YOU TO EXPLORE

Email me with any questions or concerns
Thanks

Neil 07734812582
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