Ask Sexi Sami is an anonymous weekly column for the UCSC community sponsored by the Cantú Queer Center and Student Health Outreach & Promotion (SHOP). Sexi Sami will answer questions related to healthy queer sex and relationships. One question will be answered and published in the Cantú's QConnect newsletter every Monday. To subscribe to QConnect follow this link: queer.ucsc.edu
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To avoid assumptions, please let us know your and your partner's sex, gender, and anatomy where applicable.
e.g. I am a cis man who has a penis dating a trans man who has a vagina