7. Read Rom 12:18; Ephesians 5:15-17; Prov 6:11; Prov 24:34; Prov 21:5. What are the common circumstances or topics of conversation in which the conflict occurs? (i.e. Work/chores, future plans, use of time, care of body, spiritual life, friendships, children issues, education, extended family relationships, money, social activities, communication, etc.) How could you, in humility of mind, help prevent these circumstances or topics from being problematic? Is there a pattern of sinful neglect or irresponsibility in specific areas of your life that contributes to the occurrence of these conflict-ripe circumstances? How can you become biblically proactive in these areas as a part of your plan of change in your current systemic marital conflict? *