This survey is intended to gather more insight on how messaging around "checking the boxes" to be a man or being "enough" may affect sexual performance, intimacy and enjoyment. This is for straight men with penises who have sex with women with vaginas and have had or are currently having sexual performance concerns. As a Sex & Intimacy Coach and Intimacy Surrogate, I see a lot of men who come to me to work on sexual performance and I wish to gain as much perspective as possible. I am based in the United States with a mostly Western Culture background. Your voice is greatly appreciated. I will not share your identity or personal info. Please feel free to be as real as you can to help gain better understanding of men's unspoken needs.