Date Nate

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Date Nate

Hi. I'm Nate. I'm a transhumanist rationalist altruist, and I'm trying to leave the future nicer than it was when I found it. Here's an old blog I wrote: https://mindingourway.com/. Here's some nice stuff Aella wrote about me: https://tinyurl.com/5yb2nj49.

I'm also the proud owner of the world's most popular male "date-me" form, at least as far as I've ever heard. ...This is not that form. That form is, somehow, my casual sex form, which was attached to an internet controversy that got 21 million views. 🙃.

This (much less popular) form is for those of you who want a more lasting connection.

Given that this doc is part of my search for a life partner, I have made it dry, sharp, and to-the-point. Which is... not exactly how I like my partners, but, close enough.

Age? (Or, rather, birthday?)

YYYY

Sex?

Female, and fertile to the best of my knowledge

Female, but not child-capable

Other

Clear selection

Location?

Cultural heritage?

Post-rationalist

Woke

Econoliterate (oldschool libertarian, neoliberal, etc.)

I'm more from the internet than I am from my geographical hometown

Circling / authentic relating / etc.

Theater kid

Animal activist

Effective altruist

Atheist / skeptic

Tabletop gamer

Academia

Psychonaut

Rationalist

Spiritualist / buddhist

Other:

What's great about dating you?

I'm looking for a hint that there's a spark of life behind your eyes. I encourage you to brag.

How do you deal with stress in a relationship?

I'm not looking for "my greatest weakness is actually a strength" type answers here. I have a theory that relationships live or die based on whether the partners have compatible methods of coping with stress, and so I'm curious about yours.

Polyamory?

I'm strictly monogamous

If I had a deep and secure bond with my partner, and was confident in our communication skills, I could imagine some openness to the relationship being OK

I prefer polyamory, but am looking for a strong central primary relationship

I'm polyamorous, and am not looking to invest heavily in any one partner

Clear selection

Sentient life?

Yay

Boo

Clear selection

Do you have a sadness deep in your heart?

Yes

Clear selection

Conventional attractiveness?

Not

Hot

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Name?

Link to somewhere I can learn more about you?

Ideally it'd also contain some pictures.

How do I contact you? *

Email address? Phone number?

Here's a space to say anything else you'd like to say.

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