You can respond to this in any way that you would like, but we need you to answer the following questions to the best of your ability:
* Was this a a violation of a pre-negotiated limit; ignoring a boundary or a safeword; or something else?
* When and where did it occur?- * Were there any witnesses?
* What was consented to, and how was that consent offered?
* Was either party incapacitated? If so, how?
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