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- he 99% only plays with girls
- he is extremely athletic and strong
- he will sometimes hit, shove, push, trip etc other children, (often snatch), tell his younger brother to hit or kick other children (so they can be playing nicely with other children and then seemingly out of nowhere hit or kick or push them).
- He finds it very hard to take turns and to wait.
- Sometimes he listens perfectly and other times it can feel like he’s actually deaf when he isn’t his hearing is perfect and he’s very smart and intuitive and switched on.
The school wanted him assessed (presumably for ADHD or ODD). We refused but did agree to him being observed in school. The report came back saying he needs consistent routines, and expectations and boundaries, he struggles with transitions from structured to unstructured periods (the hitting at school and at home is often with unstructured play time), he lacks empathy after he has hit another child and often feels his behaviour was appropriate and he finds it challenging to make friendships with his peers.
We have arranged private play therapy sessions for him and he’s had 5 sessions and he’s also had colour energy/tapping/ access bars sessions.
Also of note -
- he sleeps in his bed at my house in a shared room with his brother but sleeps in the same bed with his other mum). At my house he often sweats through all sheets on his bed even with cotton bedding, no heating on, window open and 4 tog duvet. And the smell of his sweat is very pungent. He also consistently grinds his teeth when he’s sleeping and sometimes says he has pains in his legs or ankles.
We are exploring as much as we can to help support his emotional well being. He was jabd in his first year and nothing since or any medications of any kind. We live healthy lives, spend lots of time outdoors, eat healthy etc and as co- parents we try as hard as we can to get along and show a united loving front to the boys.
If anyone has any suggestions or feedback on things we may have missed or if you’ve had a similar experience etc I’d really appreciate you sharing as this has become close to a full time endeavour to help both boys and especially the eldest clear/ work through these challenging areas. Many thanks in advanceni-folding-chair-p11437.aspx/ YOUR POSTCODE VIAhttps://www.mountainwarehouse.com/patterned-mini-folding-chair-p11437.aspx/https://www.mountainwarehouse.com/patterned-mini-folding-chair-p11437.aspx/I co-parent my 2 sons aged 5 and 3 and have done since my separation in Feb 2023 from their other mother . I have them half the week. My eldest attends infant school and will start year 1 in sept. Our intention was to home/community school but with the separation that was put on hold at least for now. The reason for my post is that we are having a consistent level of ongoing emotional dysregulation with both the boys and especially our eldest. In short and to summarise -
- he 99% only plays with girls
- he is extremely athletic and strong
- he will sometimes hit, shove, push, trip etc other children, (often snatch), tell his younger brother to hit or kick other children (so they can be playing nicely with other children and then seemingly out of nowhere hit or kick or push them).
- He finds it very hard to take turns and to wait.
- Sometimes he listens perfectly and other times it can feel like he’s actually deaf when he isn’t his hearing is perfect and he’s very smart and intuitive and switched on.
The school wanted him assessed (presumably for ADHD or ODD). We refused but did agree to him being observed in school. The report came back saying he needs consistent routines, and expectations and boundaries, he struggles with transitions from structured to unstructured periods (the hitting at school and at home is often with unstructured play time), he lacks empathy after he has hit another child and often feels his behaviour was appropriate and he finds it challenging to make friendships with his peers.
We have arranged private play therapy sessions for him and he’s had 5 sessions and he’s also had colour energy/tapping/ access bars sessions.
Also of note -
- he sleeps in his bed at my house in a shared room with his brother but sleeps in the same bed with his other mum). At my house he often sweats through all sheets on his bed even with cotton bedding, no heating on, window open and 4 tog duvet. And the smell of his sweat is very pungent. He also consistently grinds his teeth when he’s sleeping and sometimes says he has pains in his legs or ankles.
We are exploring as much as we can to help support his emotional well being. He was jabd in his first year and nothing since or any medications of any kind. We live healthy lives, spend lots of time outdoors, eat healthy etc and as co- parents we try as hard as we can to get along and show a united loving front to the boys.
If anyone has any suggestions or feedback on things we may have missed or if you’ve had a similar experience etc I’d really appreciate you sharing as this has become close to a full time endeavour to help both boys and especially the eldest clear/ work through these challenging areas. Many thanks in advance THIS LINK
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[a]hello!
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[d]_Re-opened_