This is my statement on the entire thing. There have been allegations going around of me being a pedophile and such. Keep in mind, the age gap is 2 years between me and the victim (who is 17). It is a weird age gap, so I would understand if this makes some, if not a lot of, people uncomfortable. This is a rushed response since I still don't grasp the gravity of what I did yet, but I will say here what I think about what I did. Eventually, the stuff I did will come out, and the second it does, I will repost it and pin it to my account.

From at least my understanding of this situation Person A, the victim, who is 17 we have been friends for quite some time now, and I liked her more than a friend. Even though I knew she had a boyfriend, I kept pushing the idea of getting into a relationship with her. This obsessive behavior became controlling in the long run, which inflicted heavy mental damage on her. If she didn’t do anything with me, I would get super upset, which made her super scared that if she didn’t respond to someone, they were going to hate her for it. I kept pushing and pushing the idea of a relationship until eventually it came to a point where she was completely mentally exhausted by it. It came to a point where it was excessive to the point it was awfully harmful to her.

I did a lot to win her appraisal, and when I didn’t get it, I would be upset, which guilt-tripped her and made this situation more messy than it is. It went as far as me stalking her TikTok and her socials. Also, this entire thing may or may not have cost her the relationship between her and her boyfriend. This behavior is not acceptable by any means; it’s creep behavior, and no one should go through what she went through. This isn’t a defensive doc, nor am I downplaying this, as stuff about this situation is still yet to come out. Once it does, I will take full responsibility. To put it simply this is all my wrong doings as far as i know for now

Unwanted Persistence Knowing Person A was in a relationship, I repeatedly pressured her to be with me.

Controlling & Manipulative Behavior I became obsessive, monitoring her TikTok and social media accounts and everyday move.

Emotional Harm Whenever she did not engage with me, I responded with upset reactions that guilt-tripped her  leaving her mentally exhausted.

Interference My actions compromised her personal wellbeing and damaged her relationship with her partner.

Another thing I want to mention is the fact of how I treated one of my friends shittily because of that situation I chose to sacrifice my friend mental well-being just so I could get close to Victim A.which is quite manipulative  

For now, this is all I have. Yes, I am a paranoid control freak. I do not expect forgiveness, nor do I want it, and I will be deactivating all accounts except my Twitter so the statement is always up in case anything comes up about this situation.

I will try and seek therapy as best as I could, and I will not come back to the community. Sorry for all the people I harmed that includes the victim and all the people I let down. I apologize to all of you, and I hope you all the best. See you later.