Everything ClayFuzzy has done so far

This document will discuss everything that ClayFuzzy, a GD YouTuber with 50k subscribers, has done that has negatively affected people through Discord, from within DMs with people and her server.

The document will contain the following: Manipulation, guilt-tripping, events within her server (Banning threats and forcing people to stay in her server through manipulation and guilt-tripping), forcing others to participate in her kink RPs, and overall rude and disrespectful acts from Clay

Note: Clay will be referred to as she/her in this document

DISCLAIMER: This document does not aim to attack ClayFuzzy in any way. The purpose of this document is to inform and show Clay her actions and how they have negatively impacted people. Additionally, this document aims to inform everyone that Clay is much less nice than people may think.

Chapter 1: Guilt-Tripping and Manipulation

The act of guilt-tripping involves filling a person with guilt and negative emotions to make the person being guilt-tripped into changing their behavior or making them do an action. This is a form of manipulation that involves messing with the person’s emotions for personal gain. There have been many instances of Clay guilt-tripping several of her friends, Clay’s method of guilt-tripping involves making people feel bad or awful by expressing how much people “hurt” her, even though these attempts of “hurt” were unintentional. Even if the person apologized and showed guilt of their actions, Clay will keep on guilting the person further.

In one instance, a member of her server would occasionally leave and join back due to them having some personal issues. Rather than Clay consulting the person and checking up on them, instead she would claim that the person was doing it intentionally to mess with her feelings, even though that wasnt the case. The person would soon apologize and was unaware that them doing it was hurting Clay. Even though the person apologized, and showed guilt of their actions, Clay remained adamant and still believes that the person was still purposefully doing it.

The instance in question:

In another instance, Clay got very upset because she was not invited to a group chat with a few people from her server. To add some context, a member decided to create a group chat with a few friends of that person. Clay however was not invited to the group chat. The group chat was never intended to be a place without Clay, and was just a simple hangout group with a few friends from the server. However, Clay thought otherwise and began despising the person who created the group chat without inviting Clay first. When Clay discovered the group chat, she acted irrationally and did not need to act the way she did. She overreacted and before any of the people could explain, she had already made up her mind that the group chat was made against her. Clay began guilting the people in the group chat, with the message that can be seen below.

Clay was very annoyed and infuriated when she wasnt invited to the group chat in the first place. You are allowed to be upset and annoyed when you arent invited to the group chat, but the way Clay acted when she discovered the group chat was unacceptable. She did not to act the way she did and guilt-tripped every person in the group chat just because the people inside the group chat forgot to add you. The people in the group chat never intended to harm Clay, and was just a small hangout for a few friends. The screenshot below shows how Clay acted when she discovered the existence of the group chat:

In another occurrence, it involves a person who will be mentioned again later in this doc. In the next series of DMs, it shows a conversation between the person and Clay, talking about how Clay should change her behavior and herself because her actions and current self have only done harm to her friends. Rather than her taking the message and promising to change, she only ignores the person’s statements and claims that their words are only hurting her. This series of DMs clearly shows Clay is attempting to guilt-trip this person rather than promising to change. She even mentioned that she can’t change, and proceeded to guilt-trip the person about it. This can be seen below:

After this, the person directly told Clay about her guilt-tripping this person and about how Clay has been victim-blaming herself. Clay tries to come up with an excuse that she’s only being used as an emotional punching bag by 5 other people. However, this person said that it only happens because of Clay’s actions that end up people hating her. This can be seen in the next series of DMs below.

A few minutes later, the person said and asks how Clay sleeps at night knowing what she did to Umbro (A person Clay was close friends with, and have been stalking to beg for forgiveness for her actions, even though Umbro has stated multiple times that he does not want anything to do with her anymore. [This can be seen in another doc]). After the person said this, it “broke” Clay, which followed with Clay gaslighting or questioning the person’s sanity in an attempt to manipulate them. In addition, she also threatened to kill herself in an attempt to once again manipulate this person, to which the person didn't believe Clay’s threat. This conversation was more guilt-tripping from Clay and trying to defend herself for being a depressed person, asking how this person could say such a thing to a depressed person like herself, which is a blatant attempt to guilt the person. The conversation later ended with Clay stating that the person is only baiting her to say bad things, and soon ended the conversation with Clay saying, to “Kill yourself.” to this person.

In this series of DMs between this person (Derpy) and Clay shows many attempts of her guilt-tripping, manipulating, gaslighting, and even using depression as a defense for her actions. Overall, it shows that Clay is a very manipulative person and would do anything to get her way. Additionally, it shows her stubbornness, and unwillingness to change herself and her horrible behavior.

Chapter 2: Banning threats, and guilt-tripping/manipulating people into staying in her server

Clay really cares about her server. Promoting it, adding many additions/features, and encouraging members to be active in the server, as well as telling them to share the server with every one of their friends. Its normal for server owners to add further improvements and figure out ways to make their servers better. However, it is not correct for server owners to have ban threats over members they do not like, or force members to stay in their server, or in this case, guilt-trip them into staying. Clay has done the aforementioned acts in her server.

In one case, a member made a joke on the server that Clay really did not like. What the member said cannot be found again, but based on the memory of other members who witnessed the event, the joke was not offensive or a horrible thing to say. Bottom line is, the joke was not offensive in any way, shape, or form. Clay however did not take the joke well and threatened to ban the member because of it. But rather than forgiving the member and giving the member a warning, Clay fully decided that she was gonna ban the member. When a member made a disrespectful joke, or if the owner personally did not like the joke, the owner should always only give the member a simple warning, and not ban the member for making a joke that did not intend to cause harm.

Screenshot of DMs with the member and Clay:

Clay noticed how a member was interrupting chat in her server, but instead of peacefully having a talk with this member, her bright idea was to tell the people on her staff team to ban this member even though they did nothing bannable. Clay just wanted to

Chapter 3: Clay’s Kinks

In this part of the document, this will discuss the kinks and erotic interests of Clay. She has a few sexual interests and desires, namely having a diaper fetish, being into hypnosis, her obsession with being “on bottom” or having heavy submissive behaviour, bondage, and a few others. While having these interests and fantasies are mostly fine, as long as it is not harming you or anyone, it is fine. However, Clay would keep pushing these interests onto other people for her own benefit and pleasure. She would force RPs (Roleplays) with other people, push her interests on others who do not share the same interests, and would get “turned off” by the person not having the same interest as her.

For one case, during an RP (Roleplay) with another person who used to be friends with Clay, she lifted up her skirt and revealed a diaper underneath it. The person was understandably put off and surprised when Clay did that, but they remained civil and provided a calm response to Clay, to put down her skirt during the roleplay. Although after the person said this, Clay would guilt the person for basically, “turning her off”, and showed her disappointment in the person. Just a reminder that this person has zero interest in diaper or anything abdl (Adult baby, diaper lover) related stuff as he explicitly stated in the screenshot below. Clay practically guilted the person for “being a massive turnoff…”, despite the person not being interested in abdl like she was. The screenshot can be seen below:

It can be said that the person has never mentioned about not being interested in abdl, however Clay has already revealed this interest/kink of hers a few days ago before the screenshot above:

In one other case, Clay would force the same person on doing a roleplay with them (From now on, the person will be referred to as Derpy). Derpy would keep telling Clay that they are not interested in doing a roleplay with Clay, especially an erp (Erotic Roleplay). It was quite clear that Clay wanted to have erp with Derpy, Clay even gave Derpy a pink cage in the roleplay (Which is something that is used to perform chastity). However, Derpy kept on explicitly stating that they did not want to have erp with Clay, but she only kept on going with the act and believed that Derpy was just “teasing her”. Despite Derpy kept on saying that they did not want to perform erp, Clay kept pushing and acted like it was part of the act. It was also midnight for Derpy, and they had school the next day, which means Derpy only wanted Clay to stop pushing them with the erp stuff and just wanted to get to sleep.

Clay continued on forcing this Derpy on doing rps with them even though Derpy is not comfortable with it. In a later date, Clay would once again force Derpy in doing a roleplay with them even though they were not in the mood for it. However, it ended quickly. This later escalated to Clay trying to justify her attempt to force Derpy into abdl stuff.

Chapter 4: Clay Being Highly Disrespectful

In this segment, it will show that Clay is a very disrespectful person. An occurrence of this involves a member from her server. Clay wanted the member to stop the action the member was doing. This member was autistic and was having a hard time understanding what Clay wanted. Rather than Clay explaining it more clearly, and in a more understandable way, she berates the member for not understanding what she was saying. Clay was being very vague when she wanted this member to stop whatever she wanted the member to stop doing. So when the member was still really confused with what Clay wanted, Clay got frustrated yet it was her fault when she did not make what she wanted clear. The screenshots below show the conversation of the occurrence, and it shows Clay being mad at the autistic member for not understanding her:

In another situation, it involves Clay’s server. She really cares about the server and wants it to be active, so she would always do everything she can to make it active and have it gain as many members as possible. During one time, a few members were putting the invite link of the server, to advertise a server they really enjoyed and cared about, as well as support Clay’s server. One time, Clay wanted another member (Clay’s former friend) to add the invite link to his about me. The friend did agree to put the invite link, and so he did. He also added a small “meow” message after the link. However, Clay got mildly infuriated at it, even though it was very minor. She did not have to be mad at something so insignificant as a small “meow” after the invite link.

Screenshot below:

Chapter 5: Clay Lying About Her Age (Lying about her being a minor, and dating other minors)

In this portion of the document, it will discuss that Clay has lied about her age online. In a live stream, Clay has confirmed that she in fact lied about her real age online, as well as confirming that she is not a minor. While her real age is still in question, all that is needed to be taken here is that she is not a minor. The reason she did this is because she wanted to be the youngest person to become a GD Moderator. Granted, she admitted it was a stupid decision but her lying about her age online with the following that she has online will only harm her credibility and trust. The link below shows the clip on the stream:

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1YXMNtRoQjXa8HLCn1lnOq8KyrnbzrXJF/view?usp=sharing 

Lying about her age online is one thing, but during the time she was lying about her age, she dated a few people, most of which are minors. One of the people that ClayFuzzy dated was Derpy, a person mentioned earlier in the document. When the two were dating, Derpy was 14, while Clay was thought to be 15, or 16 a few weeks later. During their short relationship, they had some sexual RPs and Clay confessed about having a diaper fetish a while later into their relationship. Two screenshots below

A while later, Derpy and Clay had another convo, a few weeks after the two broke up. It showed that Derpy still cared about Clay, and would cuddle with Clay sometimes, but nothing sexual. However, Clay was clearly and visibly upset with this.

What can be taken from this is that Clay was dating a minor, and tried pushing her diaper fetish onto a minor and performing NSFW stuff with the minor involving diapers.

Clay also dated another minor who will remain unnamed due to privacy reasons. The person Clay dated was 13 years old, a very young teen. This person confirmed this with a convo with Derpy.

What can be taken from the two people that Clay dated is that she is quite clearly a groomer and pedophile. It is very wrong for her to date minors while being 18+, and having sexual conversations with them, especially if the people she’s dating are very young. This also does not include everyone that Clay dated, so there could possibly be more people that Clay dated or had sexual conversations with. While it isnt shown that Clay and the person who remains unnamed had sexual conversations or roleplays, judging from Clay’s past actions and high libido or a desperate desire for sexual activities, there is no doubt that the two have at least dabbled into slight NSFW conversations.

Edits made:

• Pg. 19 - Replaced “months” with “a few days”

Reason: A misunderstanding of Derpy’s date format of being MM/DD/YYYY, while it was actually DD/MM/YYYY. This was due to the mistake of the author being used to the first date format. The point in that part still stands.

• Removed “Chapter 5: Clay Lying About Her Age (Lying about her being a minor, and dating other minors)” due to circumstances that cannot be said.
• Reverted the removal of Chapter 5