Addressing BloodKandy’s Allegations

Hey everyone. Skymixel here. I’m sure some of you within this community have been hearing rumors about me. That being that I did bad things to BloodKandy and made her uncomfortable.

This is a response document that will hopefully address any and all accusations made against me. I’m not saying that I did nothing wrong and I’m the innocent one here. No. I admittedly wasn’t a good person that you think I am.

I would like to make this clear now, I am simply applying context to what I have said or did. If I couldn’t, it’s either that I don’t know, or I was acting stupid.

Before we begin, however, I advise you not to harass BloodKandy, the creator of the document, and one of my former friends. They are experiencing suicidal thoughts, and I don’t want to make the whole situation worse than it already is.

Also, I will try to use they/them pronouns for Kandy, as I don’t know what their gender is now. (They did say they were genderqueer, as far as I know.)

Now without further ado, I will hopefully bring my controversies towards this community to rest.

When We Met

We met around the summer of 2024. While I knew them beforehand on a Riggy X Clone Riggy Shippers Be Like: meme, I didn’t seem to see them until stumbling across one of their Tweets. They formerly went by Marble Boo at the time. We then became mutual friends on Twitter and we even exchanged subscribers and friended each other on Discord. It was a fine first few days. However, over the course of three to four months, our friendship would go sour, and would lead to us breaking our friendship apart.

The Infamous Twitter DM

I’m going to start with the Twitter DMs, as this makes up part of why I am being accused of such heinous acts.

I first would like to bring up that, yes, I did make a tasteless joke about how I feel about Riggy Rule 34 and DM it to BloodKandy. It was a very bad joke, and I regret making it, even when I warned her about it. I don’t exactly remember why I deleted the message. Maybe it was part of the joke, or I was just ashamed.

Either way, it soured her a bit. However, we were able to make it up with one another.

However, that’s the first in many times that I pressured her or made her uncomfortable, even though I did not intend on doing so.

The Discord DMs

Oh boy, where do I begin?

OK, so, I would like to say that this is where I say that any and all of this is up to interpretation.

Starting off, I did ask to see more fan-art Kandy made. I did say your secret is safe with me, however, much like that Twitter DM, I have no idea why I said what I did. Kandy thought I was referring to her NSFW art, which they stated in their document. I wasn’t supposed to refer to that! If I remember correctly, it’s probably just her old shipping art she used to make. I don’t know.

Next, about the comforts thing. I was having a really bad day when I told them about it. Not only because of what I had gone through, but also because I was actually depressed.

About my secrets I sent her, like doing consensual intercourse with Riggy in my dreams, stating I made NSFW when I’m horny at night, and showing her some suggestive Riggy X Preston artwork I made as a joke were all indeed true, and I regret doing it immensely.

However, this wasn’t what caused Kandy to snap. That would be:

The Unblock Spree

I’m simply calling this the unblock spree, because I feel like I pressured her a LOT in terms of getting her to unblock people that blocked me on Twitter from the Toon Turf community. I was trying to change for the better at that time. However, little did I know that I was making her want distance away from me.

Admittedly, I was feeling desperate. I wanted things to change as fast as possible, and I didn’t know who I could need help from. Kandy was the only one I felt was trustworthy enough to help me out in a bad situation. But, it didn’t work out. She snapped at me eventually, and didn’t want anything to do with me.

Before I could apologize to them for putting on so much pressure, I found out that they blocked me on both Twitter and Discord, which was the nail in the coffin in our friendship.

Conclusion

Well, I hopefully made myself clear that, yes, I did put pressure on Kandy, and I did not respect their boundaries. I have made mistakes on multiple occasions that shaped me for the worse for a lot of people. Even though all of it was unintentional, I also made Kandy extremely uncomfortable at times, and made them think I was a guilt-tripper, or, worse, a groomer.

I may not have groomed her, but I did make her uncomfortable.

For that, Kandy, if you’re seeing this right now, I’m sorry. I’m sorry for all the pressure I put on you. I’m sorry for ever making you uncomfortable. I was a horrible friend, and a worse influence on your life. I don’t think you will ever forgive me, but that’s fine. I feel like it’s best to distance myself from you, and from the community that made me meet you.

I may not have addressed everything, but I felt like they weren’t as big, or as important as these three major points.

I wish you good luck, and I will hopefully improve as a person. Good luck out there, Kandy. I hope you stay safe. I may not have been a good influence on your life, but hopefully you realize I fucked up, and what I did was wrong and unjust.

I hope you feel better without me. See you later, alligator.