Couples Conversation Cards
Starting conversations to connect couples caught up in the things of life.
Couple Conversation Card #1
What do you remember about the first time we met?
Was there one thing that made you want to see each other again?
Couple Conversation Card #2
Would you go to the same place for our honeymoon again?
What’s one thing you’re really glad we’ve done?
Couple Conversation Card #3
What do you remember about the first place we lived together?
If you could pick a new song to play at our wedding, what would it be?
Couple Conversation Card #4
Where do you think is the most romantic place we’ve ever been?
Where’s a romantic place you’d like to go?
Couple Conversation Card #5
What’s a good quality you think we brought to our family from our growing up families?
What’s a tradition that you like that we’ve started in our own life together?
Couple Conversation Card #6
Do you remember any events that were current when we were first married?
How do our date nights look different now than when we first married?
Couple Conversation Card #7
What’s something from our dating time that you miss?
What’s something from dating that you don’t miss?
Couple Conversation Card #8
Who were well known married role models when you were growing up?
Who do you think are married couple role models for kids today?
Couple Conversation Card #9
What’s one goal we have accomplished since we married?
Is there a goal we thought we would have accomplished by now, but haven’t?
Couple Conversation Card #10
Can you think of a gift we got for our wedding that we still have?
What gift should we have gotten when we got married?
Couple Conversation Card #11
What is your favorite vacation memory since we’ve been married?
Is there a vacation you hope we will have together?
Couple Conversation Card #12
What friends have we made since we married?
Who has been a friend to you who has helped you most to be a good husband/wife?
Couple Conversation Card #13
What do you think has been our biggest surprise since we’ve been married?
What’s been our greatest burden since we’ve been married?
Couple Conversation Card #14
What’s one answer to prayer we’ve experienced since we married?
Is there something we could pray for each other this month?
Couple Conversation Card #15
During our married life, what has helped you most in our church experience?
How do you think marriage changed the way you think about church?
Couple Conversation Card #16
What was your favorite way to hear from me when we first met?
With all of the new ways to communicate, what’s your new favorite way?
Couple Conversation Card #17
What’s the funniest moment you remember in our relationship?
If someone made a tv show about our life together, what do you think it would be called?
Couple Conversation Card #18
If you could be the main actor/actress in any modern movie, who would you be?
What’s your favorite movie/show we’ve ever watched together?
Couple Conversation Card #19
If “newly married us” met “now us,” what do you think would be the most obvious difference?
What’s one way you hope we change before our next decade anniversary?
Couple Conversation Card #20
Who have we had the chance to help during our married life?
Who has helped us most as a couple?
Couple Conversation Card #21
Is there anything we ever bought that you wish we hadn’t?
Anything we “passed on” (didn’t buy) that you wish we had purchased?
Couple Conversation Card #22
Has there been a time you felt proud of us in our marriage?
What could I do to make you proud of me?
Couple Conversation Card #23
What do you remember about our wedding vows?
How has it been hard to follow through on our vows?
Couple Conversation Card #24
Where do you think we were 5/10/15 years ago?
Where do you think we’ll be 10 years from now?
Couple Conversation Card #25
What’s the most adventurous thing we’ve done as a couple?
What adventure would you like to try together?
Couple Conversation Card #26
What do I do that’s most likely to make you smile?
What could I do to bring some more joy into your routine?
Couple Conversation Card #27
What habit have I developed (or you’ve discovered) since we’ve been married?
What habit do you wish we would work on as a couple?
Couple Conversation Card #28
If you picked a word for each of our initials to describe our life, what would they be? (Ex. J&JS = Jovial Jesus Servers)
What’s one word you would like to have people use to describe us as a couple?
Couple Conversation Card #29
What old thing do we have that needs to be replaced?
What’s an old thing we have that means a lot to us?
Couple Conversation Card #30
What’s an activity we did before we were married that we could resurrect now?
What new way can we spend time together?