What God want for my child:                                Therefore, I will not allow:

Holiness (Romans 12:9)                                Evil

Love for Others (1 John 4:7, Matt 5:44)                Hatred, Envy, Bitterness, Hostility

Joy (Romans 12:12)                                        Complaining, Whining, Pouting

Peace (Romans 12:16, Gal 5:22)                        Quarreling, Strife

Patience (Romans 12:12, Gal 5:22)                        Impatience, Sharpness

Kindness (Gal 5:22, Eph 5:32)                        Rudeness

Goodness (Romans 12:14, Gal 5:22)                General naughtiness

Faithfulness (Romans 12:12, Gal 5:22)                Irresponsibility

Gentleness (Gal 5:23)                                Ruthlessness, Harshness

Self-control (Gal 5:23, Prov 25:28)                        Temper, Uncontrolled anger

Purity (Phil 4:8, Prov 4:23)                                Bad thoughts, Impure books/viewing

Thankfulness (Eph 5:20)                                Ungratefulness

Forgiveness (Eph 4:32, Col 3:13)                        Resentment, Grudges, Vengefulness

Unselfish, other focused (Phil 2:3)                        Selfishness

Respect for Authority (Romans 13:1)                Sassiness, Rebellion

Diligence (Romans 12:11, Col 3:17)                        Laziness, Carelessness

Humility (Romans 12:10, 16)                                Arrogance, Boasting

Generosity (Romans 12:13)                                Selfishness, Greed