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Riverdale’s Sephardic Congregation @ The Riverdale Bayit - 3700 Henry Hudson Parkway, Bronx NY 10463

Parasha & Zəmanim & Təfilot

Shabbat Parashat Aḥare-Qədoshim

25 April 2021 * 12 Ḥodesh Iyar 5781

27 BaOmer

Candle Lighting - 7:25pm

Minḥa/Qabalat-Shabbat/Arvit - 7:15pm (Main)

Shaḥarit - 9:00am * Latest Shəma - 9:28am

Shiur Before Minḥa - 6:30pm

Zohar - 7:00pm * Minḥa - 7:05pm

Shiur - 7:35pm

Shəki’a - 7:45pm * Arvit - 8:20pm

Tset Hakokhavim/Havdala - 8:30pm

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Weekly Tefilot Schedule: Check for details at the www.thebayit.org.

Support Beth Aharon

Thank you for being part of the Beth Aharon community. Please keep on supporting us on these corona-days. Mail donations, pledges, High Holidays 5781 and membership dues to: Congregation Beth Aharon/HIR, 3700 Henry Hudson Pkwy, Bronx, NY 10463. Check our website/blog to donate online and for daily updates: www.bethaharon.org. Contact us via email: bethaharon@gmail.com. Tizku Leshanim Rabot V’tovot!

We are Thankful all members and friends who joined us in prayers and joy throughout the 5781 Holiday Season.

Pledges and Donations for Tishre’s Holidays may be donated to Congregation Beth Aharon here: bethaharon.org.

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Beth Aharon celebrates 22 years, Shnat HaTov which is 22 in gematria, as we are commended/promised:

"וְשָׂמַחְתָּ בְכָל הַטּוֹב אֲשֶׁר נָתַן לְךָ יְהוָֹה אֱלֹהֶיךָ וּלְבֵיתֶךָ."

“And you shall/will rejoice in all the good that Hashem your G-d has given you , and to your home.”

Congregation Beth Aharon is Riverdale’s Sephardic Orthodox Congregation, located at the Riverdale Bayit (HIR) Bronx, NY. We welcome all worshipers regardless of eda or level of observance. Our congregants take an active-leading role in Tefila and Kriat haTora.

Beth Aharon News and Beyond

This Shabbat: Aḥare-Qədoshim and happy Earth Week to all!

 Rəfuaa Shəlema: Our prayers for full and quick recovery to ‘Am Yisrael wounded bodies & souls and to those who are sick, among them: Reuven ben Aliza, Menachem ben Yehudit, Yig’al ben Sulika, Avraham ben Devorah Gittel, Shoshana bat Yocheved, Gavriel Ben Yocheved, Asher ben Dvora, Sander ben Dvora, Abraham ben Lela, Deborah bat Miriam, Elimelekh ben Devora, Yosef ben Sara, Avraham Zeev ben Sara, Sara Feiga bat Tzivia Leiba, Ilana bat Victoria,Nachum ben Yehudit, and to all the ḥolim and ḥolot.

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Many Thanks to all BAners& Friends  who are coming back to shul and participate in tefilot. Ḥades Yamenu k’Qedem!

Congratulations and Yishar Kowaḥ to Sophia Sigal on being honored and receiving the Community Service Award by the Hebrew Free Burial Association. The Riverdale Hebrew Free Burial Association Salute will take place this Motsae-Shabbat, April 24th @ 9pm! Click here to join and view: https://www.hebrewfreeburial.org/. Mazal Tov!

Kiddush packed by Becky-Bakes Inc. is sponsored by the Sigal-Molinas family in honor of Sophia and with thanks to Hashem for all His giving.

Happy Birthday to all Iyar-April birthdays, and to... YOU!

CBA Tefila WhatsApp Group: for tefilot information details: Text Ami @ 917-532-8653 or email bethaharon@gmail.com.

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Lag Ba'Omer Youth Activities - Thursday, April 29th, 5-7pm - Celebrate Lag BaOmer with the Bayit Youth Department and Congregation Beth Aharon! Calling children ages 4-11: Join us at a safe and socially distant event to celebrate Lag Ba'Omer including fun sports and arts and crafts activities along a one-way course. We continue to follow social distancing and NYC guidelines in making all of our events safe and exciting! Online pre-registration is required. No walk-ins permitted. Children younger than 1st grade must be accompanied by a parent/guardian. Cost: $18 per family. If price is prohibitive, please contact HIR Youth Director, Yali Szulanski at yali@thebayit.org* Spots are available on a first-come, first-serve basis. Parents and siblings that wish to wait and pick up their kids can enjoy a "Just Dance" activity outdoors in the driveway (weather permitting). At the end of the activity course,  your child will receive a prize bag and a snack bag. Register at www.thebayit.org/lb

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Dvar Torah Parashat Aarei-Mot Kedoshim 5781. Rav Dov Lerea  The Torah Against the Abuse of Power

This Shabbat we read the double portion, parashat Aarei-Mot- Kedoshim. The content and juxtaposition of these parshiot are fascinating. Most of Acharei-mot describes the sacrificial service of the High Priest, the Kohen Gadol, on Yom Kippur. This is called the ‘Avodah service. There are two moments that lie at the heart of this ritual. First Aharon offers a bull, and then enters the Holy of Holies with incense and a fire-pan of hot coals and places that incense in front of the aron kodesh. The rabbis call this moment, life lifnim, entering into the holiest sanctuary, penetrating deeply into the most sacred space in the world, with an offering of pure fragrance filling that space with his purity of intent and full concentration. Following that mystical experience intended to effect the sacramental transformation of the people from blemished to pure, the Kohen Gadol emerges and confesses sins on the head of a goat. The Kohen Gadol confesses on his own behalf, on behalf of his priestly family, and on behalf of the entire Jewish people while he lays his hands on the head of a goat selected by lottery. That goat, as a purification offering known as the sa’ir la’azazel, is led to a cliff and then hurled into the wilderness. Commentators are divided about the meaning of that word, ‘azazel. Some claim that the word names a demon, a type of demiurge, whereas others claim the word means, “uncultivated wilderness.” Either way, the exile and demise of this goat heralds the capacity of the nation to enter the year cleansed of the burden and stain of their sins.

Acharei-mot ends with Leviticus/Vayikra 18, describing forbidden sexual relationships. Jacob Milgrom’s seminal commentary on this chapter makes a powerful case for reading all of the forbidden relationships in this section as relationships involving sexual abuse. The section emphasizes the social structures in which men were surrounded by the many women in their family, the Torah forbidding the men from violating any of them. According to this reading, since the verse abjuring sexual relations between men is set in this same context, the plain sense of the text would suggest that the Torah forbids a man from raping another man in an act of abusive power to emasculate his victim.  

This reading has the additional advantage of forming a bridge to parashat Kedoshim. Kedoshim describes many mitzvot. There are so many mitzvot in the parasha, that commentators are challenged to find an underlying, organizing principle, lest one conclude that the portion forms a random, disorganized list. Yet, when viewed from the perspective of the dynamics of power, coherence emerges. Every mitzvah described in Kedoshim suggests a prohibition against, or actions that would mitigate against the abuse of power. All of the mitzvot are relational, and like the forbidden sexual unions at the end of Acharei-mot, establish boundaries that protect against potential violation. Since the Torah assumes that people are holistic, whole beings with relationships to ourselves, to others, to animals and plants throughout the natural world, and to the Creator, the mitzvot describe scenarios in all of those spheres of life. Some of these mitzvot relate to the relationship between human beings and God, while others relate to interpersonal relationships. Examples include leaving produce in the field for the poor (peah), employers paying salary on time, (oshek), respecting the blind, (cheresh v’lifne ‘iver), judges treating litigants with equanimity (‘avel & lo tisa p’nei dal), prohibiting gossip and slander (rekhilut), responding to immediate crises as “good Samaritans,” (dam re’ekha), prohibiting holding a

grudge (lo tikom v’lo titor) and respecting all human beings (ve’ahavta lere’akha). There are mitzvot about protecting species of animals and plants and respecting the elderly. Commercial law includes equal weights and measures in fair business practice. All of these examples involve power dynamics, in which someone has an advantage over someone else. In every case, the Torah admonishes us never, ever, under any circumstances, to abuse our power. The full corpus of mitzvot between these two parshiot move from dynamics at the heart of the most intimate human relationships, to commercial interactions and our domination over the natural world. The religious message forbidding the abuse of power remains more relevant today than ever before.

The centrality of the abuse of power is what joins Acharei Mot and Kedoshim. Chapter 18 of Sefer Vayikra is the last section of Acharei Mot, and chapter 20 completes Kedoshim. Both chapters teach the prohibitions of gilui arayot, forbidden sexual relations. All of the prohibitions, when taken together, place sexual abuse at the center of a corrupt, profane society. There can be no godliness in a place of such abuse of power. The prohibitions emphasize the boundaries that must be placed on men from abusing the many women that surrounded them: mother, sisters, aunts, in-laws, wives, children. Those relationships are, by definition in this context, abusive. The land itself will not tolerate a society that enables, allows, tolerates, ignores, or otherwise justifies sexual abuse. You shall faithfully observe all My laws and all My regulations, lest the land to which I bring you to settle vomit you out. You shall not follow the practices of the nation that I am driving out before you. For it is because they did all these things that I abhorred them….(20:22-23) All of the relationships described in Kedoshim must be protected against potential abuses. If abuses are tolerated in business practices, and between society and the environment, and between humans and animals, then the abuse of bodies will be tolerated and justified. If sexual abuse is allowed in schools, in the workplace, in government, in athletics, in doctors’ offices and nursing homes and hospitals, all sectors of society, it will be tolerated where there should be the most trust and intimacy--between partners in the intimacy of the home.  And once the boundaries protecting against sexual abuse are violated, abuses of power against bodies in general will be justified by law. Europe tolerated the legal justification of dehumanization and abuse against Jewish bodies during the 20th century, and America has come to tolerate the continued abuse of bodies of color in the 21st. And God has no place in the world of abuse.

This message, that human abuse of the world, of animals, of each other, alienates and exiles God’s presence, finds expression in the realm of political governance. The Talmud teaches the following message:

Anyone who is in the position to protest against sinful behavior in the home, but remains silent, bears the guilt of that deed. Anyone in position to protest against sinful behavior in society but remains silent, bears the guilt of those deeds. Anyone who is in the position to protest against sins perpetuated in the world but remains silent bears the guilt of those misdeeds. (Bavli, Shabbat 54b-55a)

Rabbi Menachem Meiri (13th-14th c. Catalan) clarifies further, “If the king sins, and the society fails to protest, the entire society will bear the iniquity of that leader.”  The message is clear. Human beings are relational. Our relationships are professional, social, political, economic. We interact with each other and with the created world, with plants, animals, and the earth. We are endowed with intelligence, passion, and the capacity for tremendous creativity. Those gifts also enable us to abuse our power in all sectors, from the most public to the most hidden. The source that describes the world of the High Priest, entering God’s most intimate sanctuary, acknowledges that humanity’s abuse of power can exile the Creator. May we, together, work towards transforming the current world, filled with abuses, into the sanctuary God continues to yearn to occupy in our midst.

 Shabbat Shalom, Rabbi Dov

 The Shabulletin - Your shabbat-table newsletter, on the parasha and beyond... 5781:30 

Parasha & Times

Shabbat Parashat Aḥare-Qədoshim

24 April 2021

12 Ḥodesh Iyar 5781 * י”ב אייר תשפ”א

Candle Lighting - Friday

Jerusalem, Israel - 6:34pm

Bronx, NY - 7:25pm  

Tehran, Iran - 6:26pm

Paris, France - 8:37pm

Rabat, Morocco - 7:47pm

Havdala - Motsash

 Jerusalem, Israel - 7:52pm

Bronx, NY - 8:30pm

Tehran, Iran - 7:25pm

Paris, France - 9:48pm

Rabat, Morocco - 8:45pm

Picture of the Week

Who would believe?!!

An Israeli F15 flies in a joint structure alongside an Emirates F16 during training in Greek’s skies that ends today. Amazing!

A Weekly Moment

In one of the relentless French sub-revolutions, after several days of riots, the French clergyman, statesman, and diplomat, Charles-Maurice de Talleyrand-Périgord (1754-1838) heard the ringing of the bells, an indication that the riots were over.

Talleyrand told his assistant: "Here, the bells are ringing, we won!"

The assistant replied, "Who are we??"

"Not a word!" Talleyrand said, gesturing for silence with his hand. "Tomorrow I'll tell you who we are!"

In the Beginning

Cyril Zooms In

“To desire and expect nothing for oneself – and to have profound sympathy for others – is genuine holiness.” ― Ivan Turgenev

Again, this week's double parasha, Acharei Mot ("After the Death") and Kedoshim ("Holy Ones"), is providing us with various laws. Among them is the following G-d's injunction : "You shall be holy, for I, G‑d your G‑d, am holy". Needless to say that human "holiness" cannot be like Divine Holiness. We always are in a state of tension between the spiritual and the material worlds, between our desires and our obligations to our fellow men. So how can we be holy? For Nachmanides, being holy means to constrain oneself in that which is permitted. For Rabbi Schneur Zalman of Liadi : "What is forbidden, one must not; what is permitted, one need not." However, hiding from the world and becoming an hermit is out of question.  For Alshich Hakadosh (the Holy), a person should be part and parcel of "all the congregation of the children of Israel'' -- and be holy. “The best way to enjoy yourself is to do what is right and hate nobody.” ― Anne Brontë.

Wishing you and your family a holy, joyful and restful Shabbat. Shabbat Shalom!

Rav Question - שאלת רב

Why, this shabbat Aḥare-Mot-Qədoshim, Ashkenazim read the Haftara from the Book of  Amos which start with “But you are to me like Kushites...” while Sephardim read from the Book of Ezekiel 20:2-20 about wrongdoings?!

(Connecting the above to politics is at the responsibility of the reader only! :)

Time to Smile  

“When the end of the world comes, I want to be in Kentucky... They are always 20 years behind everything.” - Mark Twain

The Weekly Riddle

What has a bottom at the top?

(Guess before you take a peek. The answer is on the back page.)

On the Parasha & Beyond…

Biblical Quiz: Aḥare-Qədoshim

Kids: How many Parashot do we read this Shabbat?

Youth: What are the names of Bnei Aharon who died?

Teens: What are the names of Aharon’s other 2 sons?

Adults: Hashem forbids us from being a talebearer; neither shall we stand idly by the blood of our neighbor. What does this mean? Experts: Who said:“kaspam uzehuvum lo yuchal l’hatzilam” “Their silver and gold will not save them?”

Parasha: Aḥare-Qədoshim - Vayiqra (Leviticus)16:1-20:27

Historical Context: Bene Israel's 40­ year journey continues. Location: Midbar Sinai. Creation Time: 2448 (1445 bce).

Parashort: Following the deaths of Nadav and Avihu, G‑d warns against unauthorized entry into the holy. The Parasha of Aarei also warns against bringing qorbanot (animal or meal offerings) anywhere but in the Holy Temple, forbids the consumption of blood, and details the laws prohibiting incest and other deviant sexual relations. Parashat Qədoshim begins with the statement: “You shall be holy, for I, the L‑rd your G‑d, am holy.” This is followed by dozens of mitsvot through which sanctify us and relate us to the holiness of G‑d. These include: the prohibition against idolatry, the mitsva to give charity, the principle of equality before the law, keeping the Shabbat, being sexually moral, keeping honesty in business, honoring one’s parents, and the sacredness of life. Also in Qədoshim is the dictum of “love your fellow as yourself” which the great sage Rabbi Akiva called a cardinal principle of Torah, and of which Hillel said “Love your fellow as yourself: This is the entire Torah, the rest is commentary.”

Haftara: Qədoshim - Yehezkel (Ezekiel) 20:2-20

Haftit: Four years before the destruction of the First Temple and seven years after Yeḥezqel's exile to Bavel, the elders approach Yeḥezqel requesting that he inquire of Hashem about their fate. G-d responds negatively, explaining that even in Egypt and in the wilderness, Bene Yisrael deserved to be annihilated for their sins. The Haftara concludes with a warning to the sons not to follow their fathers' not-good ways.

Connection to Parasha: In our parasha Bene Yisrael are commanded to keep all the mitsvot, to stop worshipping idols, to keep the Shabbat, and to be holy like G-d is holy. The Haftara too warns Bene Yisrael of Idol worshipping, commands them to do good and to keep the Shabbat. We are told that we are a holy holy that must be an example to all other nations, in good holy behavior.

Ashkenazim: Read in Amos 9:7 - 9:15

Speechless in the Parasha: Aḥare-Qədoshim

As we read the 2 Parashot, find 2 ideas or commands that you follow and make you feel holy/holier.

Biblical Quiz - Answers - Qədoshim

Kids: 2, Aḥare-Mot and Qedoshim * Youth: Nadav and Avihu * Teens: Elazar and Itamar * Adults: Leshon-Hara’ is described as murder; a person’s reputation is often considered more important than his life. Embarrassing another is like drawing blood. * Experts: Yehezkel Hanavi (Ezekiel 7:19)

Weekly Halakha

האם מותר להפריד בשבת חוטי ציצית המסובכים זה בזה?

לפני שמברכים על הטלית, או שלובשים טלית קטן הנקראת "ציצית", צריך להפריד את חוטי הציצית זה מזה. ורבותינו האחרונים נתנו סימן לדבר בשם רבינו האר"י, "צִיצִת" - ראשי תיבות: צ'דיק י'פריד צ'ציותיו ת'מיד.

אבל ביום השבת, אם רואים שחוטי הציצית מסובכים זה בזה, כתב הגאון רבינו יוסף חיים זצ"ל בספר בן איש חי (פרשת בראשית), שאין להפריד את חוטי הציצית, ויש לבדוק אותם בעיניים בלבד, לראות שהציצית אינה פסולה, אבל בהפרדת החוטים ממש, יש איסור בשבת.

ומרן רבינו עובדיה יוסף זצ"ל בספרו שו"ת יביע אומר (ח"ה סימן ג) ובספרו הליכות עולם, הביא שמקור דברי הבן איש חי, הוא בדברי מרן החיד"א בספרו קשר גודל, שכתב שאם חוטי הציצית נמצאו מסובכים בשבת, אסור להפרידם.

אך מרן רבינו זצ"ל העיר על כך, שבמקור הדברים הראשון לדין זה, שהוא בשו"ת גינת ורדים (בקונטרס גן המלך סימן סה), מבואר בפירוש, שאין איסור בדבר אלא באופן שהציצית היא חדשה לגמרי, ומיד לאחר שקשרו את פתילי הציצית, הם הסתבכו זה בזה, שאז הפרדת החוטים זה מזה, נחשבת למלאכה האסורה בשבת, משום "גמר מלאכה", כי הציצית אינה ראוייה להשתמש בה אלא לאחר הפרדת החוטים, ולכן ההפרדה נחשבת ל"גמר מלאכה". אבל אם הציצית נקשרה מזמן, וכבר השתמשו בה, ועתה חזרו חוטי הציצית והסתבכו זה בזה, באופן כזה אין לאסור את הפרדת חוטי הציצית בשבת בנחת, שאין זה בגדר "גמר מלאכה" כלל.

והביא מרן זצ"ל ראיות לדבריו מגדולי הפוסקים. ולכן למעשה, ציצית חדשה, אסור להפריד את חוטי הציצית בשבת אם הם מסובכים זה בזה. אבל ציצית שכבר השתמשו בה, ועתה הסתבכו חוטי הציצית, מחמת הכביסה או מסיבה אחרת, מותר להפריד חוטי הציצית בשבת בנחת.

A Story - of aging

Not too many decades ago, Jacob was finally allowed to leave the Soviet Union and emigrate to Israel.

At the Moscow airport, a Russian customs inspector found a statue of Lenin in Jacob’s luggage. "What is this?" he asked.

Jacob replied, "Wrong question, comrade. You should have asked 'Who is this?' This is Comrade Lenin. He laid the foundations of Socialism and created the future prosperity of the Russian and the Soviet people. I am taking it with me as a memory of our brave and dear hero."

The Russian customs official saluted Jacob and sent him on his way.

At the Tel Aviv airport, the Israeli customs official also asked "What is this?" "Wrong question, brother. You should be asking 'Who is this?' This, my friend, is Lenin, the evil man who brought communism to the world, destroyed my old good country, and caused me to leave it for goods. I took this statue with me as a reminder of what he did to us and to the world. Never again!"

The Israeli customs official hugged Jacob and let him into their ancestral homeland.

When Jacob settled in his new home in the Shomron, he placed the statue in his living room, overseeing the Jabbok River Crossing where Ya’aqov struggled with the angel. The following evening, he invited friends and relatives for dinner. Spotting the statue, one of his cousins asked, "Who is this?" Jacob replied, "Wrong question, my dear. You should have asked 'What is this?' This is five kilograms of solid gold, all my life’s savings, that I managed to bring with me without having to bribe anyone and without paying huge customs fees!"

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The Moral: Politics is when you tell the same thing in different ways, get what you want, and still come out each time smelling like a fresh rose.

The Weekly Riddle Solved

Your legs.