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Riverdale’s Sephardic-Yerushalmi Congregation @ The Riverdale Bayit

3700 Henry Hudson Parkway, Bronx NY 10463 * www.bethaharon.org * bethaharon@gmail.com

PARASHA * ZEMANIM * TEFILOT

abat Mevarim Maḣar Ḣodeṡ
Paraṡat Toledot
30 November 2024 * 29 Ḣodeṡ Ḣeṡvan 5785
כ”ט חשוון
התשפ”ה
Zeman Hadlaqat Nerot
abat - 4:11pm

ir Haṡirim - 4:05pm

Minḣa/Qabalatabat/Ȯrvit - 4:21pm
Teens
iṡi Qiduṡ - 5:10pm
aḣarit - 8:45am * Latest emaȯ - 9:22am
Devar Torah - 10:45am
Siyum Masekhet - 11:30am
Qidu
 - after 11:45pm
Table Conversations
- 12:15pm

Paraṡa Ṡiȯur - 3:40pm
Minḣa - 3:55pm
Ṡi
ȯur & Seȯudonet Ṡeliit - 4:25pm

Ṡeqiȯa - 4:29pm * Ȯrvit - 5:04pm

Żet Hakok̇avim / Havdala - 5:14pm
Ṡabat ṡel Ṡalom!

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Sunday Shaḣarit 8:00am - Qorbanot. Hodu @ 8:15am.

Rəfuaa Shəlema

Our prayers for full and quick recovery to ‘Am Yisrael wounded bodies & souls and the kidnapped brothers  & sisters, and to those who are sick, among them: Reuven ben Aliza * Yig’al ben Sulika * Yaniv ben Sarah * Michael ben Sonia * Pinehas of Dahan * Yehuda Baruch Noam ben Tova Batya * Ben Tsiyon Yeheil ben Rahel * Beeri Mikhael ben Reut Ester * Rivka bat Frida * Dina bat Toya * Merav bat Dina * Dalya bat Tiqva * Devorah bat Miriam * Reouma bat Hanna * Yeyudit Miriam bat Dina * Ilana bat Victoria * Shoshana bat Yocheved * Shimon Aharon ben Batya * Noa bat Reut * and to all the ḣolim and the ḣolot.

This Shabbat & Beyond

This Shabbat Mevarkhim Maḣar Rosh Ḣodesh Kislev, Reading Parashat Toledot, Siyum Masekhet with Aharon Hall, and giving gratitude to Hashem for Hi-s daily Ḣesed. The Molad for Kislev is Sunday, December 1, 4:29am, and 15 fractions, Jerusalem time. Rosh Ḣodesh Kislev is on Sunday and Monday.

Erev Shabbat Teens Qidush after tefila is sponsored by Dana & Ohad Berebi thanking Hash-em for his Ḣesed.
● The Bayit
Sarah & Avraham’s Tent welcomes all community members and visitors for communal Erev Shabbat dinner, in memory of Henry & Goldie Guttman z"l.
Friday Night Oneg at 7:30pm Civilian Casualties and Israel's Dilemma: Jewish Perspectives on Military Ethics.
 Welcoming all Kids to participate in tefilot Beth Aharon and recite Tefila portions loved by kids, Shema’, Ashre, Yimlokh and More; and to join the Bayit Groups available from 9:30am to 11:30am, on the 3rd floor.
Special Tefilot for Medinat Israel, its People, the Perished, the Kidnaped, the Wounded, the Safety of all IDF Ḣayalim and Ḣayalot, and for an Absolute Victory of the IDF.
Azkara: Eyal ben Varda z”l, Benyahou Mahgerefteh z”l; Gavriel ben Moshe z”l.
Dvar Torah by Akiva Small Appreciating Yitzhak’s Gevurah (strength) through parallels through Shimshon haGibor.
 Siyum Masekhet by Aharon-Charlie Hall, marking Siyum Yerushalmi Talmud Masekhet Bikurim.
 Siyum Masekhet Qidush by Paula Sinclair & Aharon-Charlie Hall, in celebration of Siyum Yerushalmi Talmud Masekhet Bikurim, and in thanksgiving to Hash-em for Hi-s support. After Tefila.
 Post-Kiddush Talk w/Dov Mintz: Thanksgiving Through A Jewish Lens.
Learning B4 Minha: Sharing Your Parashat Hashavua Thoughts @ 3:40pm w/ Tsuri. ● Talk After Minha Talk with w/Rav David Silber: Isaac and the Wife | Sister Narratives of Genesis. Mila baParasha after Minḣa: Understanding a word in the parasha. “Rivqa-רִבְקָה” What does her name mean; did she trick her husband; and if yes, why? Basic (and love of :) Hebrew is sufficient.

Happenings @ Beth Aharon @ The Bayit & Beyond

Community Matters

Beth Aharon is Riverdale’s Sephardic Orthodox Congregation, located at the Riverdale Bayit (HIR) Bronx, NY, since its establishment on parashat Ḣaye Sara 5768/1998. We mark this year the compilation of our 26th year. In gematria 26 equals AḢAVA-אַחֲוָה - translates as Brotherhood and literally means Communityhood. Beth Aharon tefilot follow the Sephardi-Yerushalmi nusa, based on the teachings of Rav Ovadia Yosef, z”tsl. Our community embraces Jewish worshipers of all ethnic communities (‘edot) and of any level of observance, and welcomes all individuals who are in search of the Jewish faith. We encourage our congregants to take an active-leading role in Tefila and Qriat haTorah.
 Ahavat Yisrael and Ahavat Haberiyot - love for the Jewish people and love for all humanity - are part of the Bayit’s and Beth Aharon’s values. It manifests by being a warm and welcoming and inclusive community to everyone who loves Medinat Yisrael and the Jewish People.
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Condolences * Thanks * Blessings * More

 Our Deep Condolences to Rachel Nataneli on the passing of her father Boris Babayev, Bechor ben Batya & Emanuel, zikhro livrakha; to the families of the Israeli civilians who were murdered this week by our enemy, and to the IDF soldiers who lost their lives in battle defending ‘Am Yisrael in the Tequma War.
 Thank you all for joining Beth Aharon 26th Anniversary Shabbat and Lunchidush last Shabbat. We thank Rav Dov for Dvar Torah; to Rav Aharon-Steven for Divre Berakha; to all Beth Aharon members and friends who joined, sponsored, and supported, with special thanks to Tal-Rivqa; Yael, Roberta, Yarel, Melissa, Malka, Shoshana, Elizabeth, and the Bayit A+ Team; and to all of you who joined us for all shabbat, as well as Sunday morning, tefilot. Let's keep the Friday night tefila going!
  Mazal Tov to Dena Weiss & Shlomo Tannor on the birth of a girl.
 Happy Birthday to all this week’s birthdays, kids and adults alike.

Upcoming Events @ Beth Aharon, The Bayit, & Beyond

 Beth Aharon Rosh Ḣodesh Kislev Bake will take place b"H on Sunday, December 1 @ 6pm-8pm @ the Social Hall. We will be making delicious date cookies - עַרְגָּלִיוֹת, in Hebrew. Registration by emailing directly to bethaharon@gmail.com. Speak with Shoshana Samuels for more details; Recommended cost: $15 per Person / $10 per Child; Limited to the first 25 people; Pay at the door.
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 Rabbi Book Club with Rav Aharon Exler: December 3 between 8pm-9pm. Discussing Amir Tibon’s “The Gates of Gaza.”

‘Am Yisrael Ḣazaq Ḣai VeQayam
עם ישראל חזק חי וקיים

The Tequma War entered its second year, and 60th week. We strengthen the hands of Am Yisrael and Medinat Yisrael, its defense and security forces, its citizens and residents, and we remember the 1766 perished Israelis, civilians, rescuers, defenders, and soldiers. We pray for the fast return of the remaining 101 kidnapped, the return of the 100,000 displaced Israelies to their homes, for the full recovery in body and soul of over 13,000 injured, and for strength for the bereaved families.
With prayers for absolute victory and lasting peace.

 The Shabulletin - Your shabbat-table newsletter, on the parasha and beyond... 5785:9

Parasha & Times

abat Mevarim Paraṡat Toledot
30 December 2024 * 29 Ḣodeṡ Ḣeṡvan 5785
כ”ט חשוון
התשפ”ה

Jerusalem - 3:55pm Candles; 5:14pm Havdala
Rehovot - 4:06pm Candles; 5:16pm Havdala
Austin - 5:12pm Candles; 6:09pm Havdala
Toronto - 4:24pm Candles; 5:29pm Havdala

Miami - 5:11pm Candles; 6:06pm Havdala
Manhattan - 4:11pm Candles; 5:14pm Havdala

Moscow - 3:46pm Candles; 5:08pm Havdala

London - 3:38pm Candles; 4:52pm Havdala
Paris - 4:39pm Candles; 5:50pm Havdala

Picture of the Week


“They Look friendly, maybe they will have us over for dinner?!”

The Weekly Riddle

When John was six years old he hammered a nail into his favorite tree to mark his height. Ten years later at age sixteen, John returned to see how much higher the nail was. If the tree grew by five centimeters each year, how much higher would the nail be? (Guess before you take a peek, the answer is on the back page)

In The Good News 

Saudi billionaire Turki Alalshikh offered $700 million, if Mike Tyson agrees to compete against Jake Paul and triumphs with a 3-minute knockout in their rematch.

In The Beginning

Kislev - Kislēw כִּסְלֵו - is the third month of the Jewish civil year and the ninth month of the Biblical year on the Hebrew calendar. In a regular (k’sidran) year Kislev has 30 days, but because of Rosh Hashanah postponement rules, in some years it can lose a day to make the year a "short" (aser) year. Kislev is an autumn month which occurs in November–December on the Civil Gregorian calendar.

 The name of the month may be taken from Akadian kislimu, which means "inspissated, thickened" due to plentiful rains. But the name may also derive from the Hebrew root K-S-L as in the words "kesel, kisla" (hope, positiveness) or "ksil" (Orion, a constellation that shines especially in this month) - because of the expectation and hope for rain. The month’s name is mentioned twice in the Bible: One time in Zekharia and the second in Neemia. The month of Kislev is sometimes perceived as the month of dreams. In Jewish Rabbinic literature it is believed to correspond to the Tribe of Benjamin. The Jewish zodiac sign of Kislev is Keshet, meaning a bow, and Sagittarius in the civil zodiac.

Cyril Zooms In

“Envy is a declaration of inferiority.” - Napoleon Bonaparte

This week’s parasha, Toledot (“offspring,” “descendants,” or “generations”), has the uniqueness of evolving two generations of patriarchs, Isaac and Jacob, and providing the difficult context of their lives despite divine blessings. Of course, Jacob is not yet Israel, but we can discern in him the particularly audacious and cunning character that he will have throughout his life and that will allow him to continue the legacy of his fathers and to be the root of the Jewish people. However, we perceive that his life will be tormented, complicated and sometimes dramatic. He is the victim of the jealousy of his twin brother, Esau, and then of his father-in-law Laban, just as Avimelekh, king of the Philistines, is jealous of Isaac’s material success when he settles in Gerar. Jealousy is probably the most dangerous vice because even if the envious eventually dies, jealousy never dies, it is transmitted from generation to generation (antisemitism is a prime example), it paralyzes the potential for love (especially brotherly love in this parasha), and it is an expression of narcissism, of egocentrism. Jealousy is therefore a universal calamity that is difficult to combat. But there is a remedy: learning humility, and recognizing the good that is done to us, even if minimal. Thanksgiving is in its essence the indispensable remedy for jealousy because it brings families and friends together and it helps to appreciate being together and knowing each other. This is a great step in the right direction. I wish you and your family a grateful, restful and joyful Shabbat. Shabbat Shalom! C.B.

On the Parasha & Beyond…

Biblical Quiz: Toledot

Kids: How many babies did Rivqa have in her tummy? Teenagers: How old was Yitsaq when he married Rivqa? Adults: What did Ya’aqov give ‘Esav with the pottage of lentils (nezid ‘adashim)? Rabbis: What was ‘Esav's first wife's name? How old was he when they got married? Experts: How long had Yitsaq and Rivqa been married when ‘Esav and Ya‘aqov were born?

Parasha: Toledot - Bereshit (Genesis) 25:19-28:9

Historical Context: Location: Negev. Creation Time: Beginning of the third millennium. Approx. 1700 bce. Parashort: Rivqa and Yitsḣaq have twins, the smooth-skinned Ya’aqov, who is Rivqa’s favored, and the hairy ‘Esav, who Yitsḣaq favors. After coming home from a hunting trip, ‘Esav asks his brother for some red lentil soup, but Ya’aqov tells him he must trade first his birthright. ‘Esav agrees and everyone is happy. Years later, when Yitsḣaq is old and blind, he calls ‘Esav to give him the firstborn blessing. Ya’aqov tricks his father into giving him the firstborn blessing. ‘Esav gets mad and Ya’aqov leaves his home, out of fear of his brother and under Rivqa’s command, to find a wife at his uncle Lavan's house.

Haftara: Maḣar Hodesh – I Samuel 20:18 - 20:42

Haftit: Jonathan said to David, "Tomorrow will be the new moon; and you will be missed when your seat remains vacant... Yonathan and David arrange a sign with arrows by which to inform David of Saul's feelings towards David. Saul reacts violently to David's disappearance. Yonathan signals this information to David and advises him to flee.

Connection to Parasha: This week’s Haftara is read when Rosh Ḣodesh Falls out on Sunday it is called Machar Hodesh. Or tomorrow is the new month. The Haftarah Takes Place on the Day before the Royal Rosh Hodesh or New Month Festival took place in King David’s time. (haftorahman)

Speechless in the Parasha

Read the parasha while imagining that you are Rivqa.

Why does she deceive Yitsḣaq; Why doesn’t she talk to him? 

Biblical Quiz - Answers: Toledot

Kids: 2 babies; Teenagers: 40 years; Adults: Bread;

Rabbis: Judith, 40 years; Experts: 20 years

Rav Question - שאלת רב 

Why Turkey?

Ktav Torah Parashat Toledot

"And the servants of Yitsḣaq dug in the brook and found there a well of מים חיים mayim ḣayim" - translated as a well of living water, flowing water, spring water, springing water, or a spring-fed well.

Yitsḣaq's shepherds have quarrels with Philistine shepherds over wells in Gerar, located in the Israeli West Negev. But the quarrels do not deter them. They don’t give up and move on to another location and dig another well, and another well. Again and again they move the soil and mud and stones and indeed find water, fresh water, over which there is no dispute.

Every person has a "well of mayim ḣayim", but sometimes, and at times often, it is covered with stones and mud and debris.
The action of Yitsḣaq’s shepherds teaches us the necessity to overcome these obstacles, to work together with others, to remove covers, if necessary again and again, to dig up and remove the obstructing elements, until we reach the 'living water' and bring it to the surface, and continue life. Shabbat shel Shalom :) tbs

Time to Smile  

The Weekly Riddle - Solved: The nail would be at the same height since trees grow at their tops.