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Riverdale’s Sephardic Congregation @ The Riverdale Bayit - 3700 Henry Hudson Parkway, Bronx NY 10463

Parasha & Zəmanim & Təfilot

Shabbat Parashat Vayera

 23 October 2021 * 17 Ḥeshvan 5782

Candle Lighting - 5:47pm

Shir Hashirim - 5:47pm

Minḥa/Qabalat-Shabbat/Arvit - 5:57pm

Shaḥarit - 8:45am * Latest Shəma - 9:57am

Kiddush: 11:45pm

Zohar - 5:25pm * Minḥa - 5:30pm

Se’uda Shelishit/Shiur-Mila baParasha: 6:00pm

Shəki’a - 6:04pm * Arvit - 6:39pm

Tset Hakokhavim/Havdala - 6:49pm

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Weekly Tefilot Schedule at www.thebayit.org

Shabbat shel Shalom!

Congregation Beth Aharon is Riverdale’s Sephardic Orthodox Congregation, located at the Riverdale Bayit (HIR) Bronx, NY. We welcome all worshipers regardless of eda or level of observance. Our congregants take an active-leading role in Tefila and Kriat haTora.

Next Shabbat: Congregation Beth Aharon 23rd Anniversary! Your favorite Riverdale tefila since parashat Ḥaye Sara 5768

This Shabbat & Beyond

This Shabbat Wayera Elaw -  All Tefilot @ the LLBM ● Tefilat Erev Shabbat: Starting at candle lighting time with Shir Hashirim; Minḥa is 10 minutes later.

Beth Aharon Kids Raffel Continues: Kids! Come on shabbat morning and participate in Ashre, Shema’ Yisrael, Yimlokh, Ein K’Eloqenu and more... and win an electric scooter and many more exciting prizes!

 Dvar Torah - Reb Yossef (Yossi) Ben-Harush: Elisha and the Sunamit  - Between Miracles and Pragmatism. Reb Yossef, to be b”H a Rabbi, is currently a Judaic Studies Teacher at SAR High School. Yossi was born and raised in the holy city Jerusalem. He studied Torah at Yeshivat Orot Shaul of Rav Yuval Sharlo; served in the IDF’s Golani shelanu; studied Jewish Thought at the Hebrew University of Jerusalem and Jewish Education at Mikhlelet Herzog; and completed his Masters in Jewish Thought about R' Ahrale Roth. Yossi is a former educator at the Hartman High School for Boys and a former teacher at the Gap-Year program, Havruta. He is currently working on his PhD dissertation about Hasidism in Eretz Yisrael in the interwar period.

Kiddush this shabbat is sponsored by Beth Aharon friends.

After Minḥa Mila baParasha - 6:00pm: Understanding a word in our parasha - Moav’s mother: what was her name, how many sisters did she have, and should she be more acknowledged by the Jewish People? Basic (and love of :) Hebrew is sufficient.

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 Rəfuaa Shəlema: Our prayers for full and quick recovery to ‘Am Yisrael wounded bodies & souls and to those who are sick, among them: Reuven ben Aliza, Yig’al ben Sulika, Avraham ben Devorah Gittel, Yaniv Ben Sarah, Michael Ben Sonia, Gilbert Henri Tsion ben Clarisse, Yona bat Sara, Julia Haya Sara Nitzria bat Mazal, Oded ben Dina, Daniel ben Dina, Elimelekh ben Devora, Aliza bat Rahel, Avraham Ze'ev ben Sarah, Asher ben Dvora, Moshe ben Bela, Avraham ben Lela, Sander be Dvora, Michal bat Tzipporah, Yehushua ben Sara, and to all the ḥolim and ḥolot.

Many thanks to the Friedman and Abikzer families for sponsoring kiddush last shabbat; To Rav Yonah Berman for sharing words of (Choveve) Torah.

Our Board members, Ami Aharon, Akiva Small, Illan Donnard, Etty Bar-Shai, and Roberta Krauss, would like to hear from you!

Happy Birthday to all the eshvan-October birthdays, and to... YOU!

Kiddush Sponsorship is available for all kiddushim types and for all occasions.

Tefila WhatsApp Group - Congregation Beth Aharon: for tefilot information and details, text ‘Amiel@ 917-532-8653 or email bethaharon@gmail.com

Beth Aharon ḤEDVA Birkat Hashana Campaign: 5782 - תשפ”ב

In a few weeks, on shabbat parashat Ḥaye Sara, b”H we will be celebrating Beth Aharon’s 23rd Anniversary. In gematria 23 equals ḤEDVA-חֶדְוָה which translates as REJOICING. We are calling our wonderful community to join us in rejoicing and also take part in our 5782 Birkat Hashana Campaign. As we are returning to the ordinary tefilot schedule in our bet tefila at the Bayit, we welcome all congregants old and new to join us in prayer and rejoicing, thanking Hashem at His holy place, the bet knesset, for the strength and joy He has given us, as 1 Chronicles 16:27 verse says: “הוֹד וְהָדָר לְפָנָיו, עֹז וְחֶדְוָה בִּמְקֹמוֹ - splendor and majesty are before Him (Hashem’s presence), strength and rejoicing are in His place (Hashem’s sanctuary).” This year we are looking to build the Aron Kodesh and to resume all our yearly community activities. Your participation in tefilot, membership, and Birkat Hashana, greatly enhances our Bet Knesset and b’ezrat Hashem neadesh yamenu k’qedem and beyond. Shana Tova.

 Dvar Torah Parashat vaYera 5782. Rav Dov Lerea

October 22, 2021 * 16 Cheshvan 5782 * Haftorah: II Kings 4:1-37

The Spiritual Authenticity of Doubt and Disappointment

The haftorah comprises two stories from the prophetic career of Elisha‘, Eliyahu’s disciple. Particularly the second episode, the story of the Shunamite woman, teaches lessons about hope and resilience, and forms a tapestry of narrative motifs woven together from events in Avraham’s life.

Listen to the echoes from the Avraham narratives. In the story, Elisha‘ travels regularly through Shunem. Elisha‘’s disciple, Geḥazi, is called a na‘ar, just like Avraham’s servants during the ‘aqeda. Yitsaq himself is also called a na’ar during that fateful event. The woman prepared an upper chamber for Elisha‘ during his travels, just as Avraham prepared his tent and sat outside, searching for wayfarers to bring home and feed. The mysterious messenger-wayfarers who approach Avraham and Sara’s tent were suddenly transposed into God speaking directly to Avraham, promising that Sara would bear a child. Geḥazi, in the haftorah, tells Elisha‘ that the woman is childless. He describes the couple's circumstances almost word for word with phrases used to describe Avraham and Sara: And he said, "Now what can we do for her? " And Geḥazi said, "Indeed, she has no son, and her husband is old."  (II Kings 4:14) Elisha‘ promises that in a year hence, she will bear a child using the same phrase the messengers use promising Avraham offspring through Sara. There is also refusal to believe this prediction, just as both Sara and Avraham laughed (although only Sara is rebuked.) And he said, "At this time next year, when you will be alive like now, you will be embracing a son." And she said, "No, my lord, O man of God, do not deceive your maidservant." (II Kings 4:16) When the boy dies in his mothers lap and she then brings him up to Elisha‘’s chamber and lays her son on the bed, one imagines Yitsaq lying on the altar about to be slaughtered. The impact and role of the mothers is emphasized in both narratives. Regarding Sara, the rabbis taught that Sara died immediately following the ‘akeda, traumatized by the unfolding of the events:

The narrative of the death of Sara follows immediately on that of the Binding of Yitsaq, because through the announcement of the Binding — that her son had been made ready for sacrifice and had almost been sacrificed — she received a great shock (literally, her soul flew from her) and she died (see, Rashi Bereshit 23:2 & Pirke d’Rabbi Eliezer 32)

In the Elisha‘ narrative, the Shunamite woman becomes Avraham. She saddles her ass, just as Avraham had early in the morning of the ‘akeda, and speaks to her “girl-lad servant.” Instead of telling the servant to “wait here until I return,” as Avraham had, the Shunamite woman says, “Under no circumstances stop! Make certain we keep riding until our destination:” And she saddled the she-ass, and she said to her servant, "Drive and go forward. Don't keep back from riding because of me unless I tell you." (II Kings 4:24) As she approached Elisha‘ and Geḥazi, the text says that Elisha‘ looked and “saw her from a distance,” echoing the phrase in the binding of Yitsaq as Avraham approached Mt. Moria. ”Avraham lifted his eyes and saw the place from afar.” (Bereshit 22) Avraham and Yitsaq traveled to God’s chosen place, Har haMoria (identified in other sources as Har haBayit, the location of the Temple of Jerusalem, as well as of Gan Eden). Here, the woman finds Elisha‘ also at a

mountain, Har haKarmel, which also means, “the garden of the mountain.” At the moment of encounter, the Shunamite becomes Hannah, embittered and traumatized by tragedy. Just as Hannah

cried out to God and described herself as “bitter of soul” (I Samuel 1), Elisha‘ recognizes the same quality now in the Shunamite: And she came to the man of God to the mountain, and she took hold of his feet; and Geḥazi approached to push her away. Now the man of God said, "Let her be, for her soul is bitter to her, and the Lord hid it from me and did not tell me." (II Kings 4:27) This last phrase also echoes a moment from the parasha. God said aloud, “Shall I ide from Avraha what I am about to do [to Sdom and ‘Amora?” Whereas here, Elisha‘ recognizes that God hid the child’s death from the prophet, leaving it to the Shunamite woman to inform him of the tragic turn of events.

Geḥazi and Elisha‘ travel to the boy. The boy is dead, lying on the bed of the prophet, as if it were an altar. Geḥazi checks for breathing with his staff. Elisha‘ lies on the boy’s body, mouth to mouth, hand to hand, eye to eye The prophet paces the room. He lay on the young boy again, and the boy, according to Rashi and others, “sneezed” seven times. The verb, yezorer, is unusual, but it clearly has to do with breath. The boy returned to life by breathing, and then opening his eyes. This is a tale of hope, perseverance, resilience, and faith. In some ways, the Shunamite woman is a spiritual isotope of Avraham Avinu. They both respond to circumstances with alacrity. Both respond to God’s word; Avraham directly, and the Shunamite to the word of God’s prophet. Both saddle an ass. Both have servants accompanying them. Both narratives entail a sacred mountain and vision from a distance. However, Avraham focuses on God; the Shunamite focuses on her son. Avraham is silent; the Shunamite is active and direct. Avraham is compliant and accepting of whatever might be the outcome, the Shunamite struggles with the tension between hope and reality. She fell on Elisha‘'s feet and said, “Did I not say to you, ‘Do not mislead me?!”’ (II Kings 4:28) The word for “mislead” is “tashle.” Commentators as well as the Targum Yonatan take this word to mean, do not set me up for disappointment. In other words, Do not grant me a son, if he will be met with an untimely and tragic end. The Shunamite has the courage, the resilience, and the inner strength to articulate and express the tensions at the heart of hope and faith. There is no authentic faith, she teaches us, without doubts and disappointments. Avraham felt this intuitively. But if we read the Tanakh as the developmental stages in the sacred history of our people, the Shunamite woman grants us permission to nourish our hopes for the future and our trust in God as a loving and supportive Creator by working through our doubts, challenges, questions and uncertainties. Perhaps the narrative teaches us that we can cultivate a deep, holistic faith only by acknowledging and engaging the spiritual struggles life brings us along the way.

Shabbat Shalom, Rabbi Dov

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Parasha & Times

Shabbat Parashat Vayera

16 October 2021 * 10 Ḥodesh Ḥeshvan 5782

י’ חשוון תשפ”ב

Jerusalem - 5:19pm Candles; 6:35pm Havdala

Paris - 6:29pm Candles; 7:33pm Havdala

Manhattan - 5:47pm Candles; 6:45pm Havdala

Moscow - 4:54pm Candles; 6:06pm Havdala

BuenosAires - 6:56pm Candles; 7:54pm Havdala

Lagos - 6:12pm Candles; 7:02pm Havdala

Picture of the Week

‘Erit - Lot’s Wife

A Weekly Moment

“Advice is a dangerous gift, even from the wise to the wise, and all courses may run ill.”

- Gandalf: J.R.R. Tolkien, The Fellowship of the Ring

The Weekly Riddle

Riddle: A cell phone and a phone case cost $110 in total. The cell phone costs $100 more than the phone case. How much was the cell phone?

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Cyril Zooms In

“To regret deeply is to live afresh.” ― Henry David Thoreau

This week's parasha, Noah, is the continuation of Beresheet. Noah is this "righteous man" chosen by God to save whatever was worth saving in an irremediably corrupted world. The various stories in this parasha (the deluge, the vineyard and the curse on Cham, the Tower of Babel) have a common denominator: Regrets. At the end of Beresheet, God Himself regretted creating Man. It is repeated twice (6-6 and 6-7). How can God have regrets? Can He make mistakes? Regrets can be the consequences of mistakes but also of missed opportunities. God cannot make mistakes but we can and we do, a lot. Even after the flood, mankind is still falling - "We live in a rainbow of chaos." (Paul Cezanne): Cham's desecration of his father Noah, the arrogant construction of the Tower of Babel followed by the dispersion of Mankind and the confusion of languages. The main lesson here, that antediluvian generations missed to properly understand or apply, is that we should not be ashamed of acknowledging our regrets, our mistakes, our failures. "Mistakes are the portals of discovery." (James Joyce) This is part of the human experience. After all, if God Himself did, we should. It is also a sign of self-limitation. God did not rest after 6 days of creation. He does not need to. He ceased work, He abstained and contracted Himself. He considered that the world needed to be perfected by Man, not by Him. This is why the creation of Man was "very good" (1-31). God made this world under the principle of repentance, return, knowing that Man will fall again and again and again until he does what he is supposed to do. "Experience is simply the name we give our mistakes." (Oscar Wilde) However, there is hope at the end of the parasha. Abram (later Abraham) is mentioned. This is the beginning of a new era for humanity. "To make no mistakes is not in the power of man; but from their errors and mistakes the wise and good learn wisdom for the future." (Plutarch) Wishing you and your family an unmistakably restful and joyful Shabbat, Shabbat Shalom!

In the Beginning

Thomas Jefferson 1743-1826. A Verginia delegate to the Continental Congress; The first United States secretary of state under George Washington 1790-1793; The second vice president of the United States under John Adams 1797-1801; The third president of the United States 1801-1809; An American statesman, diplomat, lawyer, architect, philosopher, and Founding Father; The principal author of the Declaration of Independence; Proponent of representative democracy and republicanism; The founder of the Democratic-Republican Party, advocating state rights and individual rights; A founder of Virginia State University; The commander-in-chief of the Barbary Wars which, with his follower in office James Madison, put an end to the 300 years long Barbary slave trade of over 1,250,000 Europeans by North African Islamic slave-traders; A contemporary slave owner who believed in Africans’ human rights and advocated for the stop of slave trafficing and the limitation of slave spread and use in the US.

In 1827, a year after Jefferson’s death, New York State abolished slavery... exceptions applied. In 1861, at the eve of the US Civil War, most of NY’s Jews, of nearly 20 congregations, were pro-South.

On the Parasha & Beyond…

Biblical Quiz: Vayera

Kids: How many sons did Sara have? What was his name?

Teenagers: How many angel-men came to Avraham? How many went to Lot? Adults: When Avraham went to sacrifice Yitsḥak, how many servants did he have with him? How many donkeys?

Experts: How many daughters did Lot have?

Parasha: Yayera - Bereshit (Genesis) 18:1-22:24

Historical Context: Location: Erets Kna’an - Elone Mamre, Sdom and ’Amora, Negev, Mount Moria, back to Be'er Sheva’. Creation Time: Beginning of the third millennium. General Calendar: 1700's bce.

Parashort: Avraham rushes off to prepare a meal for 3 angel-guests who appear in the desert heat and is being notified that in 1 year barren Sara will give birth to a son. Sara laughs. Avraham pleads with G-d to spare the wicked city of Sdom. Two of the 3 angels arrive in the doomed city, where Avraham's nephew, Lot, extends his  hospitality to them and protects them from the evil intentions of a Sdomite mob. Sdom is destroyed but Lot is saved with his 2 daughters. Avraham's move to Grar and encounters the Philistine king Avimelekh. G-d remembers His promise to Sara and gives her and Avraham a son, who is named Yitsḥak (Issac). Yitsḥak is circumcised at the age of 8 days. Hagar and Yishma’el are banished from Avraham's home and wander in the desert; G-d hears the cry of Yishma’el lad and saves his life by showing his mother a well. Avimelekh makes a treaty with Avraham at Be'er Sheva’. G-d tests Avraham's devotion by commanding him to sacrifice Yitsḥak on Har Moria. Avraham receives the news of the birth of a daughter, Rivqa, to his nephew Betuel.

Haftara: Vayera - Melakhim Bet (Kings 2), 4:1-26

Haftit: Elisha’ lodges in the home of a woman in Shunem known for her hospitality... and promises her that she will have a son. The woman does bear a son, however he tragically dies a few years later. The Shunamite travels to find Elisha’ to tell him of her loss. Elisha’ comes to Shunem to help revive the child.

Connection to the Parasha: Just like Avraham & Sara, the Shunamite woman & her husband were old, great hosts, and also childless. In both cases, G-d blesses them with a child.

Speechless in the Parasha: Vayera

Read both laugh accounts: Avraham’s in Lekh Lekha and Sarah’s in our parasha, vayera. Are they the same laughs? Who laughs better, Avraham or Sarah?

Biblical Quiz - Answers - Vayera

Kids: One son. Yitsaq. Teenagers: Three came to Avraham but only two went to Lot. Adults: Two servants and one donkey.  Experts: Either 2 or 4.

 Rav Question - שאלת רב

Why did Avraham stop at 10 righteous Sedomites? Why not 7? Did the count include women?

Ktav Torah - Vayera

In last week's parasha, Lekh Lekha, Lot chooses to go on his own the Sedomic way. At first, Lot pitches his tents near Sodom at the Kikar, the plains of the Jordan River, which reminded him of Egypt. But a chapter later we find Lot living in town.

The Torah tells us right away that the Sedomites were evil and sinners. Did Lot know that? Maybe not at first, but soon he must have found out. The midrash is loaded with stories about the evilness of Sedom and its friend-towns. Lot must have heard and seen some of it. He probably thought of leaving, but the Sedomites wouldn't let him. “Where are you going brother? These legs of yours seem unnecessary,” they might have hinted to him. Or maybe Lot was ashamed to ask to be saved again by his uncle Avraham, who rescued him from the Four Kings a few years earlier. “Let’s stay,” Lot said, “and hope for better days.”

Lot manages to keep some Hebrewish behavior and practices one of Avraham’s flagship manners; hospitality. LIke avraham welcomed guests in his tent, including the verysome angel-guests who now paid a visit to him, Lot welcomes the two men to his home, feeds them, and protects them from the barricading Sedomites.

The mob scene is a vivid tale of the inherent dangers in conformity and the inevitable tragic end which awaits a homogeneous society. The Sedomites act in uniformity. They came from the edges of the town, young and old, demanding from Lot to let them have his guests. They just wanted to “know” them.

There is no one righteous in Sedom who stands in the mob’s way. There is no king in Sedom, he was probably abolished after the loss to the Four Kings. There is also no judge and not a good Samaritan. Lot’s sons inlaw are also not to be found. We just see a hedonistic, nihilist mass of people. A messy mass.

 They are not xenofobic and they are not motivated by racism. The sages describe the Sedomic equality of evilness under the law to all who dared showing kindness, compassion, love, originality, and uniqueness. Sedom preached and practiced uniformity of mind and action against everyone who does not follow their misguided rules.

Imagine if a few men were resisting hegemony? Imagine if some women had initiated a civil protest? Imagine if all kids were allowed to speak their minds? Imagine if ten Sedomites would have risen up and said: “this is not the right path!” Imagine that there was a debate, a discussion. Maybe then the false wrongs would have become a true right and rights!

Socialism in Hebrew is evratanut. It sounds friendly like evre, a group of friends, but it is rather very dangerous. It absolves the individual into a pointless society ruled by a dicatting self-assigned elite which knows all and better.

A spoiler: Good end, at least for a few goodfellas. At the end the storming mob were not able to hurt Lot’s guests or his daughters. Rather the Sedomites were badly jabbed by Lot’s angel-guests, everyone without even not one exception. Sedom’s uniformed homogeneously-minded society survived a few more hours, before being covered for good by a rain of stones and fire.

The wannabe jabbers were all jabbed.

Shabbat shel Shalom. tbs

Time to Smile  

In celebration of Congregation Beth Aharon 23rd Anniversary next shabbat, we will be screening the movie “There Is a Sephardi Among Us!” :)

The Weekly Riddle Solved

$105 (Not $110)