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Riverdale’s Sephardic-Yerushalmi Congregation @ The Riverdale Bayit

3700 Henry Hudson Parkway, Bronx NY 10463 * www.bethaharon.org * bethaharon@gmail.com

PARASHA * ZEMANIM * TEFILOT

abat Paraṡat Vayeshev
21 December 2024 * 20 Ḣodeṡ Kislev 5785
כ’ כסלו
התשפ”ה
Zeman Hadlaqat Nerot
abat - 4:13pm

ir Haṡirim - 4:10pm

Minḣa/Qabalatabat/Ȯrvit - 4:23pm
Teens
iṡi Qiduṡ - 5:10pm
aḣarit - 8:45am * Latest emaȯ - 9:35am
Devar Torah - 10:45am
Qidu
 - after 11:30pm
Table Conversations
- 12:00pm

Paraṡa Ṡiȯur - 3:45pm
Minḣa - 4:00pm
Ṡi
ȯur & Seȯudonet Ṡeliit - 4:30pm

Ṡeqiȯa - 4:31pm

Ȯrvit - 5:06pm

Żet Hakok̇avim / Havdala - 5:16pm
Ṡabat ṡel Ṡalom!

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Sunday Shaḣarit 8:00am - Qorbanot. Hodu @ 8:15am. Bagels & Coffee are sponsored by Eliezer Ohayon and Yaakov Zalicha.

Rəfuaa Shəlema

Our prayers for full and quick recovery to ‘Am Yisrael wounded bodies & souls and the kidnapped brothers  & sisters, and to those who are sick, among them: Reuven ben Aliza * Yig’al ben Sulika * Yaniv ben Sarah * Michael ben Sonia * Pinehas of Dahan * Yehuda Baruch Noam ben Tova Batya * Ben Tsiyon Yeheil ben Rahel * Beeri Mikhael ben Reut Ester * Rivka bat Frida * Dina bat Toya * Merav bat Dina * Dalya bat Tiqva * Devorah bat Miriam * Reouma bat Hanna * Yeyudit Miriam bat Dina * Ilana bat Victoria * Shoshana bat Yocheved * Shimon Aharon ben Batya * Noa bat Reut * Yarden bat Avigayil * Aharon ben Hinda Ester Gitel * and to all the ḣolim and the ḣolot.

This Shabbat & Beyond

This Shabbat reading Parashat Vayeshev, settling in the Land and selling a brother, Sovalicious kiddush, and giving gratitude to Hashem for Hi-s daily Ḣesed.

Erev Shabbat Teens Qidush after tefila is sponsored by ___________.
● The Bayit
Sarah & Avraham’s Tent welcomes all community members and visitors for communal Erev Shabbat dinner, in memory of Henry & Goldie Guttman z"l.
 Welcoming all Kids to participate in tefilot Beth Aharon and recite Tefila portions loved by kids, Shema’, Ashre, Yimlokh and More; and to join the Bayit Groups available from 9:30am to 11:30am, on the 3rd floor.
Special Tefilot for Medinat Israel, its People, the Perished, the Kidnaped, the Wounded, the Safety of all IDF Ḣayalim and Ḣayalot, and for an Absolute Victory of the IDF.
Azkara: Eyal ben Varda z”l, Benyahou Mahgerefteh z”l; Gavriel ben Moshe z”l, Evelin bat Roza z”l, Hananya ben Eliyahu z”l, Ethel Riva bat Henry & Rae Klutz, Eta Riva bat Henoch & Rachel z”l.
Dvar Torah by Reb on the Parasha.
 Qidush is sponsored by Henry-Ḣanokh Krauss in memory of his mother, Ethel Riva bat Henry & Rae Klutz, Eta Riva bat Henoch & Rachel z”l.
Learning B4 Minha: Sharing Your Parashat Hashavua Thoughts @ 3:45pm w/ Tsuri. ● Seuda Shelishit after Minha.

Talk After Minha with Rabbi David Silber: Judah, Tamar and the Art of Storytelling at the MSN.
Mila baParasha after Minḣa: Understanding a word in the parasha. This week: “Yosef-יוסף” What does the name mean; where was he born; and what's the connection to Sukkot?  Basic (and love of :) Hebrew is sufficient.

Condolences * Thanks * Blessings * More

 Our Deep Condolences to the families of the Israeli civilians who were murdered this week by our enemy, and to the IDF soldiers who lost their lives in battle defending ‘Am Yisrael in the Tequma War.
Thank You! Ours thanks to all last shabbat’s potluckers, and all the teens who joined on Erev Shabbat.

  Mazal Tov to Dena & Shlomo Tannor on girl baby-naming Noga-Luna. ● Happy Birthday to all this week’s birthdays, kids and adults alike.

Happenings @ Beth Aharon @ The Bayit & Beyond

Community Matters

Beth Aharon is Riverdale’s Sephardic Orthodox Congregation, located at the Riverdale Bayit (HIR) Bronx, NY, since its establishment on parashat Ḣaye Sara 5768/1998. We mark this year the compilation of our 26th year. In gematria 26 equals AḢAVA-אַחֲוָה - translates as Brotherhood and literally means Communityhood. Beth Aharon tefilot follow the Sephardi-Yerushalmi nusa, based on the teachings of Rav Ovadia Yosef, z”tsl. Our community embraces Jewish worshipers of all ethnic communities (‘edot) and of any level of observance, and welcomes all individuals who are in search of the Jewish faith. We encourage our congregants to take an active-leading role in Tefila and Qriat haTorah.
 Ahavat Yisrael and Ahavat Haberiyot - love for the Jewish people and love for all humanity - are part of the Bayit’s and Beth Aharon’s values. It manifests by being a warm and welcoming and inclusive community to everyone who loves Medinat Yisrael and the Jewish People.
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Upcoming Events @ Beth Aharon, The Bayit, & Beyond

Parent-Child Learning on Motsash, 45 minutes after Havdala, at the 2FBM Midrash with light eats and fun learnings.
Youth Families Chanukah Melave Malka Saturday, December 28, 2024 • 27 Kislev 5785. 5:45pm-7:30pm. Left Hand Social Hall. Please register below by December 23rd. Questions? Please email yali@thebayit.org

Happy Hanuka to all - the first candle is this Wednesday night, 25 Kislev - 25 December.
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Beth Aharon
anuka Celebration will take place b”H on Motsash, Saturday night, December 28, Ner Reviei shel Hanuka @ 6:30pm @ the Bayit's social hall. Arts & Crafts for kids, Dreidel Competition, Ḣanuka-Trivia, anuka Sing-Along, Sufganiyot, Latkes, Good Eats, and prayers for Absolute Victory. Registration via Evite. For info email bethaharon@gmail.com. Fee: Adult $18; kids (ages 4-17) $10; Family $56; Payment at Door or Here: >>> Donate On-Line >>> All BAnners and Friends are welcome! May we all have Hag Hanuka shel Or!


Rabbi Book Club with Rav Aharon Exler: January 7 • Shai Held • Judaism Is About Love: Recovering the Heart of Jewish Life.
 Eli-Yehuda Meshulam’s Bar Mitsva - Join the Goodman and the Meshulam families on Shabbat parashat Shemot, January 18, Tevet 18, as we celebrate Yehuda Meshulam’s Bar Mitsva with tefilot, divre Torah, divre berakha, and festive lunchidush. All are invited.
 Beth Aharon Rosh Ḣodesh Shevat Bake will take place b"H on Thursday, January 30 @ 6pm-8pm @ the Social Hall. We will do ala Bake with Hafrashat Ḣala. Please Register by emailing directly to bethaharon@gmail.com. Speak with Shoshana Samuels for more details; Recommended cost: $15 per Person / $10 per Child; Pay at the door or Online.

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 The Shabulletin - Your shabbat-table newsletter, on the parasha and beyond... 5785:12

Parasha & Times

abat Paraṡat Vayeshev
21 December 2024 * 20 Ḣodeṡ Kislev 5785
כ’ כסלו
התשפ”ה

Jerusalem - 3:59pm Candles; 5:18pm Havdala
Rehovot - 4:10pm Candles; 5:21pm Havdala
Austin - 5:17pm Candles; 6:14pm Havdala
Toronto - 4:25pm Candles; 5:32pm Havdala

Miami - 5:17pm Candles; 6:12pm Havdala
Manhattan - 4:13pm Candles; 5:17pm Havdala

Moscow - 3:40pm Candles; 5:06pm Havdala

London - 3:35pm Candles; 4:52pm Havdala
Paris - 4:38pm Candles; 5:51pm Havdala

Picture of the Week

The Weekly Riddle

In the picture above, are there 2 optimists; or 2 pessimists; or 1 of each? If you chose the last option, who is the pessimist of the two men, and who is the optimist?
(Guess before you take a peek, the answer is on the back page)

A Weekly Thought 

“The six best doctors in the world are sunshine, rest, exercise, diet, self-esteem, and friends.”  - This quote is often attributed to Charlie Chaplin. However, it actually comes from an old rhyme.

Cyril Zooms In

“Every generation loses the Messiah it has failed to deserve.” - Michael Chabon

This week’s parasha, Vayechev (“He settled” or “he dwelt”), beyond the jealousies, shortcomings, blindness and faults of the brothers and their parents, draws a parallel between the destinies of the two Messiahs, the one born of Joseph and the one born of Judah. Through Joseph’s tribulations, it is the history of the Jewish people in the diaspora that is described: Joseph is sold into Egypt as a slave, then rises through his work before falling and then rising again to become viceroy of Egypt. As for Judah, his story is confusing, that is to say that it takes a strange, even mysterious direction. He is described as a respected man who integrates into the society around him. Here again, we can see a parallel with the history of the Jewish people. And yet, the whole affair with Tamar seems out of place in this parasha, suddenly inserting itself into the narrative about Joseph. Why this “interruption”? Judah is the ancestor of King David and therefore of the Messiah of the end times. From Joseph comes the Messiah who prepares the ground, the foundations, to allow the other Messiah to accomplish his mission, to build the "divine house", that is to say to establish peace in this world. Their history is therefore intrinsically linked. It is possible that each Messiah is not a person but the entire Jewish people, at different periods of history. We will celebrate Hanukkah this week. Hanukkah is the story of the Jewish people who revolted, who defeated their Greek enemies and who by a divine miracle were able to keep the lights of the Temple burning for 8 days. When the Jewish people take the right direction, God gives them the necessary boost to succeed. This boost can also constitute the Messiah. For this, it must be earned. I wish you and your family a meritorious, bright, restful and joyful Shabbat. Shabbat Shalom! Happy Hanukkah! Chag Sameach! C.B.

‘Am Yisrael Ḣazaq Ḣai VeQayam עם ישראל חזק חי וקיים

The Tequma War entered its second year, and 64th week. We strengthen the hands of Am Yisrael and Medinat Yisrael, its defense and security forces, its citizens and residents, and we remember the 1779 perished Israelis, civilians, rescuers, defenders, and soldiers. We pray for the fast return of the remaining 100 kidnapped, the return of the 100,000 displaced Israelies to their homes, for the full recovery in body and soul of over 13,000 injured, and for strength for the bereaved families. With prayers for absolute victory and lasting peace.

On the Parasha & Beyond…

Biblical Quiz: Vayeshev

Kids: Which son did Ya’aqov love the most? Is it fair?

Teens: How should we pronounce the name ‘Amos?

Adults: Where was the prophet ‘Amos born? * Experts: Who in the Bible wore ketonet passim besides Yosef?

Parasha: Vayeshev - Bereshit: (Genesis) 37:1-40:23

Historical Context: Location: Kenaעan and Mitsrayim. Creation Time: the second half of the 22nd century to the beginning of the 23rd century. General Calendar: approx. 1665-1715 bce. Parashort: In the year 2216 to creation, Ya‘aqov settles in Kna‘an and gives the 17 year-old Yosef a ketonot-pasim, a special garment. Yosef likes to dream as well as to relate 2 dreams to his brothers, which angers them greatly. The brothers conspire to get rid of him, but Reuven intervenes and suggests throwing Yosef into a pit, so he can buy some time. During Reuven's absence, Yehuda suggests selling Yosef into slavery, Yosef is taken to Egypt, and the brothers give Ya’aqov a contrived evidence of Yosef's death. The love-story of Yehuda and Tamar ends with the birth of the second twins in the Bible. Yosef is being purchased by Potifar and is appointed to run Potifar's household. Potifar's wife attempts to seduce Yosef, but Yosef withstands temptation and flees her, all alone. As a punishment, Yosef is thrown into the royal prison and is chosen by the warden to run the prison. Due to his social skills, he comes in contact with the former royal wine steward and baker and successfully interprets their dreams. The wine steward is re-appointed to his position, but the baker will no longer bake. Yosef is 28 years old and faithfully waiting for salvation.

Haftara: Vayeshev - Amos 2:6-3:8

Haftit: The exiled Tribes of Israel had four sins that Hashem was unhappy with. The first three were Idolatry, Immorality, and bloodshed. The last one is that the Israelite judges accepted  bribes. On the first three sins, G-d was willing to forgive his nation but on the fourth one G-d wasn't willing to forgive. G-d deals with the Jews strictly, out of care and love. This enables us to reflect, repent and in-turn improve ourselves and be a light for the nations. Connection to the Parasha: The prophet ‘Amos accuses certain Israelites for having sold the righteous for money and the poor for shoes. The Parasha acknowledges that Ya‘aqov’s sons sold Yosef into slavery for money.

Rav Question - שאלת רב 

In the Weekly Thought above, 6 natural doctors are mentioned. Which are D’Orayta, which are D’Rabanan, which are neither, and which do you follow?

Speechless in the Parasha - Vayeshev

Parashat Vayeshev starts in Kenaעan and ends in Egypt. In between 5 places are mentioned; 3 in connection with Yosef and 2 in connection with Yehuda. Can you find them?

Makon baParasha - Dotan

“…for I overheard them say, 'Let us go to Dothan.” “.כִּי שָׁמַעְתִּי אֹמְרִים נֵלְכָה דֹּתָיְנָה…”

Dotan (דֹתָן‬) was a biblical city located north of Shekhem. Eusebius places it 12 miles to the north of Sebastia. It has been identified with Tel Dothan located 7 miles southwest of the Arab city Jenin - which is originally the Biblical Levite city of ‘Ein Ganim - in the midst of the Dotan Valley (עמק דותן‬ ‘Emek Dotan, in the north Shomron. The new Jewish city arish חָרִישׁ‎ was recently built 16 miles west of Tel Dotan and is projected to inhabit 100,000 residents by the end of the decade.

Time to Smile  

Lenin was on the deathbed, with Stalin sitting by his side... Lenin says: "Joseph... I'm not sure you're the right man to lead the country after me. I don't know if the people will follow you." Stalin responds: "Don't worry, Vladimir Ilyich. Half of the country will follow me, and the other half will follow you."

Biblical Quiz - Answers: Vayeshev

Kids: Ya‘aqov loved Yosef more than all his sons. No. Teens: Amos is pronounced with the guttural letter ‘ayin. Adults: In the mountaintop city of Tekoa in the Land of Yehuda. Experts: King David’s daughter, Tamar - Amnon’s sister, as wore the daughters of the King.

The Weekly Riddle - Solved

All options could be correct, depending upon the subject matter, the perception, and/or the intention.