Situation

Rating from 1 - 5:

1 = most safe

5 = least safe

Someone stops you to ask for directions.

3

You are getting changed at the swimming pool and someone keeps staring at you.

5

A family friend walks into the bathroom while you are in there.

5

You are at a friend’s house and his older brother asks you to touch his penis.

5

Mum and Dad are fighting.

3

The babysitter tucks you into bed and puts their hand down between your legs under your pyjama pants.

5

You have been to a family BBQ and Dad has been drinking a lot, but still says he can drive home.

5

You arrive home to an empty house.

4

You are home on your own and someone comes to the door.

3

Your little sister or brother holds your hand.

1

You have been called to the principal’s office.

1

An adult friend of the family gives you a kiss and puts their tongue in your mouth.

5

Dad gives you a cuddle.

1

The next door neighbour asks you over when his wife is not home.

3/5

You give your name and address to someone you have been chatting to on your computer.

5

You are lost in the mall and ask a sales assistant to help you.

2

Grandma likes to give you a big hug and a kiss.

1

You always go for a run around the neighbourhood before tea.

3

The teacher gives you a pat on the back.

1

Mum gives you a kiss and cuddle at bedtime.

1

You are approached by a group of older students who want to try out your new bike.

4

You walk home on your own.

5

Your step-father shouts at you.

3

After a sports game someone from the other team hassles you.

5

Someone is close behind you as you are walking to the shops.

5

You are at your uncle’s place and a group of adults are drinking alcohol.

4

You are playing a game on the field when someone pulls your pants down.

3

Mum or Dad come into the bathroom to check if you are okay.

2

You get a ‘high 5’ when you bring a certificate home from school.

1

Someone kicks you on purpose.

5

You fall off your bike on the road. Someone offers you a ride home.

5

Your older brother or sister invites their friends around while they are babysitting you.

3

Someone you have met online asks for your photo.

5

You are walking home in the rain when the people from the next farm offer you a ride.

4

A friend takes a photo of you on their cell phone while you are getting changed.

4

The coach asks you to stay behind after sports practice.

5

You have gone out on your own for an early morning ride on your horse.

4

You arrange to meet someone that you have been talking to online.

3

The person behind you pulls your hair really hard.

5

Grandad likes to put you on his knee and cuddle you very tight.

4