Adoptee Bingo
Uses adoption to argue an alternative to abortion | You could have been left in a dumpster! | “But you were CHOSEN!!! “ | “Adoption is so beautiful.” | What trauma? |
Equates more money to being better parents | Happy adoptee: “What's your problem?” | You’re so ungrateful! | AP/FP tells their child’s story to everyone | Uses or promotes foster care as a “cheaper option” |
Calls adoptees unwanted | “But you were SO loved, you were given up.” | FREE ADOPTEE CENTERED SPACE | “Better life” | Uses BLANK SLATE “logic” |
“Parents were probably junkies” | Wants kudos for adopting. | But who’s your >>REAL<< mom? | “Your heritage doesn’t matter, you were LOVED” | Family building tool. |
Infertility Bandaid Baby | Compares adoptees to pets/gifts | Not adopted and speaks for adoptees they know | Knows a LOT of adoptees!! | “Adoption saves lives!!” |
By XennialCourtney