EROS | AGAPE |
acquisitive desire and longing | sacrificial giving |
upward movement | comes down |
man’s way to God | God’s way to man |
man’s effort | God’s grace |
assumes salvation is man’s own work | salvation is the work of Divine Love |
egocentric love | unselfish love |
a form of self-assertion of the highest, noblest kind | seeks not its own, it gives itself away |
seeks to gain its life, a divine immortalized life | lives the life of God, therefore dares to lose life |
the will to get and possess, which depends on want and need | freedom in giving, which depends on wealth and plenty |
primarily man’s love-- God is the object | primarily God’s love; God is Agape |
even when it is attributed to God, eros is patterned on human love | even when it is attributed to man, agape is patterned on Divine love |
determined by the quality, the beauty, the worth of its object | sovereign in relation to its object and is directed both to the evil and the good |
not spontaneous, but evoked, motivated | spontaneous, overflowing, unmotivated |
recognizes value in its object and loves it | loves and creates value in its object |