FOR NATE TO ASK:

1. What could I do to make you feel more loved?

2. What could I do to make you feel more respected?

3. What could I do to make you feel more understood?

4. What could I do to make you more secure?

5. What can I do to make you feel more confident in our future direction?

6. What attribute would you like me to develop?

7. What attribute would you like me to help you develop?

8. What achievement in my life would bring you greatest joy?

9. What would indicate to you that I really desire to be more Christ like?

10. What mutual goal would you like to see us accomplish?

Optional: Have I overlooked any question you would like for me to ask?

FOR LORE TO ASK:

1. Do you feel I properly understand the goals that God has placed in your heart? How can I help you achieve them?

2. What are some things I can do to regularly show you just how satisfied I am with you as my husband and the leader of my home?

3. Is there anything I am doing or failing to do that seems to send a signal that I do not honor you or your leadership in our home?

4. Is there anything I can change to make our home a place where you feel more satisfied and comfortable?

5. Are there any big dreams in your heart that you have been hesitant to share with me? How can I help you fulfill them?

6. How do you feel we can begin communicating better than we already are?

7. Do you feel that there is anything keeping either one or both of us from God's best in our lives? What should be my part in freeing us from those restraints?

8. Are we where you wanted us to be at this stage in life? How can I help you make that possible within God's guidelines?

9. How do you envision our future together? What can we do together to achieve that goal?

10. What can I do to show you how much I need and trust you?

Optional: Have I overlooked any question you would like for me to ask?

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