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Explanatory Note:
In my healing writings, such as "Your Baby is not a Sack of Potatoes, Mrs !" and others,
I use images of naked babies taken from publicly available educational / childcare websites.
This is necessary for educational and healing purposes.
In my earlier efforts, I used text only in my educational / healing writings.
When it became clear that text alone was making little impression on readers, I saw
that images of the mother-infant relationship in action were needed to
bring the analysis and healing message alive in the reader's imagination and to convey
the reality of what actually goes on in the mother-infant relationship.
that images of the mother-infant relationship in action were needed to
bring the analysis and healing message alive in the reader's imagination and to convey
the reality of what actually goes on in the mother-infant relationship.
This is a healing project, and the use of publicly available images of mothers and babies
is essential for educational / healing purposes in this context.
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Public link to this document:
http://docs.google.com/View?id=dddp6bt4_188hggbt5f8
http://docs.google.com/View?id=dddp6bt4_188hggbt5f8
THE UNIVERSAL FEAR OF BEING KNOWN
This is a major feature of the human condition
and you can see it everywhere -
the absolute terror human beings have
of being known as who they are,
a huge fear of being seen as they really are,
of revealing the truth about themselves
and about what they are really thinking and feeling.
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Conventional/academic 'psychology' has no explanation of the human condition, and concerns itself largely with useless, sadistic, vivisectionist tormenting of white rats, in a vain attempt to conceal the intellectual and emotional bankruptcy of their so-called 'science' of 'psychology.'
Life is simple.
But you are trained to imagine that only your 'superiors' - 'doctors' / 'academics' / 'professionals' - can explain anything of importance to you.
The opposite is the truth, because if 'academics' ever advocated truth and healing, they would be as 'turkeys voting for Christmas,' because when we heal our civilisation, we will have no politicians, no governments, no 'academics' in the sense that we have them today. When the human race matures, when humanity 'comes of age,' when our civilisation heals and becomes sane - there will be no money, no exploitative power, no governments, no academic elitism as we know know them today......... although there will be then a class of human beings known as *public servants* . Therefore the present-day 'authorities' will always oppose healing, as healing means no more 'authorities.'
Turkeys don't vote for Christmas; therefore governments and academics will always oppose healing.
Healing comes from you and me, the man and woman in the street, when you get the courage to think independently of the bums and parasites in the government and in the universities, as I am doing.
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Today let's focus on that near-universal human trait - our absolute terror of being known as who we really are.
Where did that fear of being known come from?
Life is simple.
But you are trained to imagine that only your 'superiors' - 'doctors' / 'academics' / 'professionals' - can explain anything of importance to you.
The opposite is the truth, because if 'academics' ever advocated truth and healing, they would be as 'turkeys voting for Christmas,' because when we heal our civilisation, we will have no politicians, no governments, no 'academics' in the sense that we have them today. When the human race matures, when humanity 'comes of age,' when our civilisation heals and becomes sane - there will be no money, no exploitative power, no governments, no academic elitism as we know know them today......... although there will be then a class of human beings known as *public servants* . Therefore the present-day 'authorities' will always oppose healing, as healing means no more 'authorities.'
Turkeys don't vote for Christmas; therefore governments and academics will always oppose healing.
Healing comes from you and me, the man and woman in the street, when you get the courage to think independently of the bums and parasites in the government and in the universities, as I am doing.
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Today let's focus on that near-universal human trait - our absolute terror of being known as who we really are.
Where did that fear of being known come from?
Part of my healing gift is to help you to see that the explanations and answers to life's tormenting questions are simple, are intelligible to everybody without need of formal education and without need of verification by 'experts.'
So, why are you all so ABSOLUTELY TERRIFIED of revealing yourselves as who you actually are?
So, why are you all so ABSOLUTELY TERRIFIED of revealing yourselves as who you actually are?
As always, the lesson of Oxana Malaya is a vital part of the answer.
Think of Oxana. Think of our overwhelming urge to IMITATE and REPEAT our prominent early experiences, particularly if associated with physical survival.
Next, I can identify for you one of the major early episodes in every human being's life which most definitely was and is associated with our physical survival.
Do you want to focus your minds and see something important about yourselves, which no academic 'psychologist' and no bogus "therapist" will ever tell you?
OK, follow the simple, straight-line logic with me.
Think of Oxana. Think of our overwhelming urge to IMITATE and REPEAT our prominent early experiences, particularly if associated with physical survival.
Next, I can identify for you one of the major early episodes in every human being's life which most definitely was and is associated with our physical survival.
Do you want to focus your minds and see something important about yourselves, which no academic 'psychologist' and no bogus "therapist" will ever tell you?
OK, follow the simple, straight-line logic with me.
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1. Oxana Malaya demonstrates vividly our intense impulse and need to imitate and repeat prominent early experiences, especially those directly and clearly associated with physical survival.
SEE VIDEO / FOUR MINUTES / http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lMbf8R9BPyg
2. Next look again at Peter Newman's two documents highlighting anal eroticism in the mother-infant relationship (the two brief and more 'readable' ones):
Your Baby is not a Sack of Potatoes, Mrs !
TEMPORARY LINK OWING TO MISUNDERSTANDING BY MISGUIDED PERSON OF HEALING NATURE OF THESE DOCUMENTS:
ORIGINAL LINK, HOPEFULLY TO BE RESTORED SOON IF GOOGLE IS IN FAVOUR OF HEALING:
3. Have you looked again at those two documents? Please do so, even if only briefly scrolling through them.
Your Baby is not a Sack of Potatoes, Mrs !
TEMPORARY LINK OWING TO MISUNDERSTANDING BY MISGUIDED PERSON OF HEALING NATURE OF THESE DOCUMENTS:
ORIGINAL LINK, HOPEFULLY TO BE RESTORED SOON IF GOOGLE IS IN FAVOUR OF HEALING:
Undeniable conclusion: you, all of you, male and female, as you grew out of infancy and gained movement and vocabulary, had a powerfully intense urge to return your mother's love to her exactly as given, by caressing your mother's anus exactly as she had caressed your anus, with the emphasis on LOVE, expressing your love for your mother by putting that orgasmic smile on her face while stroking your mother's anus, corresponding to the orgasmic smile she had placed on your face as she pleasured you in your anus. You don't remember it, but look again at that image in "Careless Hands," reproduced here.
4. Because our civilisation is insane, the immediate purpose of motherhood is to ration love by rejecting and tormenting babies to fill them with repressed rage to be discharged on the battlefields of permanent inter-tribal wars.
5. Therefore, as you inevitably reached out to return your mother's love by caressing and pleasuring her anus - your mother was condemned to bombard you with toxic shame to ration love and reduce you to soldier material. You longed to return her love exactly as given to you. You were developing language/vocabulary skills and you longed to tell her how much you loved her and adored her, and how much you longed to give her the same pleasure in her anus as she had given to you in your anus.
5. Therefore, as you inevitably reached out to return your mother's love by caressing and pleasuring her anus - your mother was condemned to bombard you with toxic shame to ration love and reduce you to soldier material. You longed to return her love exactly as given to you. You were developing language/vocabulary skills and you longed to tell her how much you loved her and adored her, and how much you longed to give her the same pleasure in her anus as she had given to you in your anus.
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But she was condemned to slap your arm in reprimand as you reached for her anus, and to place a stern, condemnatory expression on her face and torment you with the toxic shame, saying 'that's dirty' or similar words, which left you bewildered and heartbroken, but - above all - ABSOLUTELY TERRIFIED. (You don't remember. I do remember. You too can recover those terrible memories.)
6. CONCLUSIONS:
That was *who you were* - a baby longing to return your mother's love as given, by pleasuring your mother's anus as she had pleasured your anus.
But to reveal yourself as who you really were was to lose your mother's acceptance and nurturing, which threatened your survival..... you being the dependent baby that you were.
So, you learned that lesson from your warmongering mother,
That was *who you were* - a baby longing to return your mother's love as given, by pleasuring your mother's anus as she had pleasured your anus.
But to reveal yourself as who you really were was to lose your mother's acceptance and nurturing, which threatened your survival..... you being the dependent baby that you were.
So, you learned that lesson from your warmongering mother,
the lesson being this:
to reveal your true self to another, to reveal your innermost thoughts, is a terrifying threat to your survival.
The baby looks out of what he perceives as a false embrace and cries in exasperation and abandonment. He has come through the horrors of the later stage of infancy, wherein the mother unknowingly and robotically abused her child by imposing on him the Orwellian inversion and toxic shame, while convinced that she still loves her baby and has done nothing wrong. The baby knows he can never voice his true feelings to her, the intensity of his pure love for his mother, fused with his unavoidable impulse to return her loving caresses exactly as given to him, most urgently his impulse to caress his mother's anus as she caressed his, and to have the satisfaction of seeing the blissful smile derived from anal pleasure he would be putting on his mother's face, as she had put on his face an estimated 8,760 times, before The Fall in the later stage of infancy.
Remembering again Oxana Malaya, you can deduce that from that point on we all are condemned to repeat for the rest of our lives that piece of behaviour so indelibly wired into our brains by our mothers as being associated with our safety and survival:
never reveal your true self; fear it greatly, because your warmongering mother taught you that if you reveal your true self, your true thoughts and feelings to others, your survival is endangered.
Do you see it now - why you all are so terrified of being known, so terrified of being seen as who you actually are, so terrified of revealing your true thoughts and feelings?
never reveal your true self; fear it greatly, because your warmongering mother taught you that if you reveal your true self, your true thoughts and feelings to others, your survival is endangered.
Do you see it now - why you all are so terrified of being known, so terrified of being seen as who you actually are, so terrified of revealing your true thoughts and feelings?
But that's not all of it. Oh no. It's even worse.
WHO IS THE PERSON YOU ARE MOST OF ALL TERRIFIED OF REVEALING YOUR TRUE SELF TO?
WHO IS THE PERSON YOU ARE MOST OF ALL TERRIFIED OF REVEALING YOUR TRUE SELF TO?
Answer: it is your wife/husband/lover.
The one you love most of all is the one you are most terrified of revealing your true self to.
The one you love most of all is the one you are most terrified of revealing your true self to.
Why?
Because your mother was the one you loved most, and your mother made you terrified of revealing to her your true self, your true thoughts and feelings - your intensely urgent need to pleasure your mother in her anus as she had pleasured you in your anus.
If you still can't see it, you will after you do the reparenting exercises.
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RELEVANT LINKS AGAIN:
1. Oxana Malaya demonstrates vividly our intense impulse and need to imitate and repeat prominent early experiences, especially those directly and clearly associated with physical survival.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lMbf8R9BPyg
2. Next look again at Peter Newman's two documents highlighting anal eroticism in the mother-infant relationship (the two more 'readable' ones):
Careless Hands
http://docs.google.com/View?id=dddp6bt4_187gpmt3sjh
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PS - Regrettably I have to repeat my 'health warning' about the reparenting exercises. They may release powerful emotions in some people, which you may find difficult to cope with, and the present tragic civilisation - especially our FAKE "therapy" industry - does not even recognise the existence of these primal emotions. So be careful of what you say to other people if you recover the memories of the authentic states of infancy, and do not attempt those exercises at all if you don't have at least one person in your life who will always love you unconditionally.
It's called an emotional safety net, for a person who comes to realise s/he is surrounded by about six billion mentally ill people.
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RELEVANT LINKS AGAIN:
1. Oxana Malaya demonstrates vividly our intense impulse and need to imitate and repeat prominent early experiences, especially those directly and clearly associated with physical survival.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lMbf8R9BPyg
2. Next look again at Peter Newman's two documents highlighting anal eroticism in the mother-infant relationship (the two more 'readable' ones):
Your Baby is not a Sack of Potatoes, Mrs !
TEMPORARY LINK OWING TO MISUNDERSTANDING BY MISGUIDED PERSON OF HEALING NATURE OF THESE DOCUMENTS:
ORIGINAL LINK, HOPEFULLY TO BE RESTORED SOON IF GOOGLE IS IN FAVOUR OF HEALING:
Careless Hands
http://docs.google.com/View?id=dddp6bt4_187gpmt3sjh
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PS - Regrettably I have to repeat my 'health warning' about the reparenting exercises. They may release powerful emotions in some people, which you may find difficult to cope with, and the present tragic civilisation - especially our FAKE "therapy" industry - does not even recognise the existence of these primal emotions. So be careful of what you say to other people if you recover the memories of the authentic states of infancy, and do not attempt those exercises at all if you don't have at least one person in your life who will always love you unconditionally.
It's called an emotional safety net, for a person who comes to realise s/he is surrounded by about six billion mentally ill people.
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PS - As stated numerous times, It is not helpful for one family or one
group to go it alone in our era by changing back to antediluvian child
rearing practices. That will do more harm than good - because the
children will still have to grow up surrounded by an insane civilisation.
PS - As stated numerous times, It is not helpful for one family or one
group to go it alone in our era by changing back to antediluvian child
rearing practices. That will do more harm than good - because the
children will still have to grow up surrounded by an insane civilisation.
It has to be all or nothing, the whole world or nothing.
The only way forward is a prolonged period of re-education/
reorientation among adults leading to a future time when the entire
human family worldwide will know the truth and will make the decision
collectively to change our laws so as to behave with a bit of decency
and fairness toward the subsequent generation of babies.
The only way forward is a prolonged period of re-education/
reorientation among adults leading to a future time when the entire
human family worldwide will know the truth and will make the decision
collectively to change our laws so as to behave with a bit of decency
and fairness toward the subsequent generation of babies.